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5 Year Long Dry Spell and Your Opinion on Dating Single Mothers? 15 Dec 2016 17:28 #273340

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I was in a slump for a couple of months after a girl I was seeing dumped me, so I tried and tried and tried to get somewhere with online dating and finally caught a fish on POF. However, she's a 4.5/10 single mother with two kids.

I had used a mix of the Lose Your Virginity guide and Rooster's Guide to Online Dating. My intent was set to relationship.

If you could set the intent on an online dating site to wants to break long dry spell and it was socially acceptable then that's what I would set it to.

If you don't count the hooker from backpage last year, I have had a 5.5 year long dry spell.

Recently it has been brought to my attention that it's stupid to date a mother because she could start relying on you to take care of her kids. I tell these types of people "all I'd have to say is no" yet I still think they probably have a point.

I've had my thoughts of letting her go anyway...

I've lost my virginity years ago to a single mother. But she didn't have custody of the child so there was no involvement on my part at all.

What would you do, and if you suggest letting her go, what is the most harmless way to do it?

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5 Year Long Dry Spell and Your Opinion on Dating Single Mothers? 15 Dec 2016 20:02 #273350

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Can somebody please help? Any advice is better than none. :'( Have you been in a similar situation before? Were there any explosions?

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5 Year Long Dry Spell and Your Opinion on Dating Single Mothers? 16 Dec 2016 00:59 #273366

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Thanks for your reply. I'll look into it.

But does anyone else have an opinion on single mothers and is it worth it to have sex with one in order to lose your dry spell?

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5 Year Long Dry Spell and Your Opinion on Dating Single Mothers? 16 Dec 2016 05:07 #273382

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It's always worth it to have sex, just by the fact you are considering it.
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5 Year Long Dry Spell and Your Opinion on Dating Single Mothers? 17 Dec 2016 00:25 #273439

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Agree witth Bobby. Two more things. Don't knitpick, beggars can't be choosers as they say hahaha, but seriously don't worry now about future uncertain problems. If ever she tries to ask you for money or whatevs, you can always say no, so don't get ahead of yourself.

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5 Year Long Dry Spell and Your Opinion on Dating Single Mothers? 17 Dec 2016 02:38 #273441

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Personally I would not get into a relationship with a women that already had kids with another man. Hell no. You know what your strengths and weaknesses are, so you should do everything you can to solve your issues and stop being reliant on needing someone else to satisfy your needs, just let her go, not worrh it. Her kids could become attached to you and if you prolong it while not feeling the same you would be pegged as the bad guy. Just move on and be honest with her. Honesty is always the best option no matter how much it hurts. Tell her you're in a different place in your life right now, your priorities have changed and you would probably start being an ass to her... Other more experienced guys can chime in.

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5 Year Long Dry Spell and Your Opinion on Dating Single Mothers? 18 Dec 2016 00:55 #273494

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Your question blows me away. You've had no sex except for a hooker in 5 years, yet you're trashing this woman who's interested in you. You've had no options for FIVE YEARS. You need help man. Sorry to break it to you, but if she's a 4, you must be too or you wouldn't have a 5 year dry spell. You have to be realistic man.

To answer your question: It's 100% fine to date, fuck, and/or have a relationship with a single mom. I've fucked 20, 30, 40 (honestly), of em. I don't even fucking know. Not a single one has tried to trick me into taking care of her kid. They wanted my dick and I gave it to them. There are in fact some serious perks to dating single moms.

Go FUCK HER already.

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5 Year Long Dry Spell and Your Opinion on Dating Single Mothers? 18 Dec 2016 02:40 #273496

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Win Big wrote: Your question blows me away. You've had no sex except for a hooker in 5 years, yet you're trashing this woman who's interested in you. You've had no options for FIVE YEARS. You need help man.

I wouldn't say I'm "trashing" her. People who I will not name, who are considered my elders, have given me this idea that it's stupid to date a single mother. However,

To answer your question: It's 100% fine to date, fuck, and/or have a relationship with a single mom. I've fucked 20, 30, 40 (honestly), of em. I don't even fucking know. Not a single one has tried to trick me into taking care of her kid. They wanted my dick and I gave it to them. There are in fact some serious perks to dating single moms.

Go FUCK HER already.


that gives me the best perspective yet - thank you for that. I will go ahead and give it to her! :side:
...if I can get over my pussy-itis that is.

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5 Year Long Dry Spell and Your Opinion on Dating Single Mothers? 18 Dec 2016 02:50 #273497

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Btw, would you care to clarify what kinds of perks there are to it? Just curious.

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5 Year Long Dry Spell and Your Opinion on Dating Single Mothers? 18 Dec 2016 03:12 #273499

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If you can fuck her, fuck her

I personally stay away from single moms just because of availability but that's just me and there's also some background to that.

But if she has the time to see you why not

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5 Year Long Dry Spell and Your Opinion on Dating Single Mothers? 18 Dec 2016 13:29 #273533

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NoExcuses wrote: Btw, would you care to clarify what kinds of perks there are to it? Just curious.


Sorry man, not trying to be mean, I was just giving it to you straight up.

Perks. At 30+ women start to chill out. They become more mature and easy going. They are less modest sexually, thus more open to trying new things in the bedroom.

Depending at what stage you get the single mom, they may be in no rush for a serious relationship. A woman fresh off a divorce will have very few expectations of you. Newly divorced are easiest to have sex only relationships. Single moms tend to be busy between a job and raising a kid. Often they are just looking for good company and sexual fulfillment once in a while. It totally depends on the woman, you have to gauge it. It's common they are only free to meet with you a few times a month and they don't expect lots of communication in between. They're too busy to answer their phone anyways.

FYI - single mom coming to my place TODAY, in 3 hours! I'm pretty excited about her actually. See my thread Kinky 45 y/o if you're curious.

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