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Hi. I've fucked 10+ girls and have experience with sex.
But recently I got into committed relationship and it's my first time that I have a girlfriend. Could you recommend me some legit sources like GLL that are about relationships? I don't have experience and want to be ready for hidden rocks that I am not aware of yet.
I was in the same place as you in my first relationship, fucked a humble amount of girls and had no idea how to manage that shit and yolo'd it.
Like during the first half of it I was strong, dominant, didn't tolerate shit but eventually I became weak cause of "love" lol, dropped my standards, "compromised" with little shit: each time you tolerate little bullshit no matter how little, she'll lose more respect for you subconsciously. I learned my lesson and became SO fuckin strong and dominant after that shit, back to my natural state.
Be selfish. NEVER tolerate any kind of bullshit. Depending what it is, it doesnt mean break up with her but give her a stern warning/call her out on it. If it happens again you drop her. It's very important to stick to your guns and drop that shit. She needs to understand that you don't really need her and can find someone else/fuck other girls EASILY. That's your leverage.
Another thing is, when dealing with problems and shit, don't follow your "heart" or "love" Use your brain, think logically, rationally. Your "heart" is lying to you, it's your dick talking.
In a way you should think of it as a business transaction. Business deal.
You gave her your commitment, in return she gives you sex and whatever the fuck else you request. If she doesn't pull her end of the bargain, you drop her and you get a girl who will.
Have unbreakable high standards in what you want in a gf.
Be selfish, don't be weak. If she senses weakness in you, she'll end up resenting you for it even if she SAYS she likes whatever it is, deep down she doesn't
If she deserves it, then yeah by all means you could text call everyday, go on dates as often as you want, pay for her and shit, get her gifts, all that shit, doesn't mean you're weak. Its only weak if you do that shit when she hasn't earned it and doesnt deserve it. She should needs to be fuckin crazy about you and be willing to do everything for you. Unconditional love.
Last thing, if the shit is legit, dont focus on the end result between you guys. Don't focus on the future and base your relationship on what you can become. Focus on and appreciate each moment and be thankful for it. Because it won't last forever, nothing is permanent, just saying. (Maybe it will last till the day you die, but probably not lol)
Repo, thanks for very enhanced feedback. I read the article and did some conclusions. I have to mention that she knows I am a player and I dropped 3 my fuckbuddies to be with her. And sometimes we argue because of my badassness. Now I realise it's good thing and I have standards. I recognized some of my mistakes and sometimes I tolerate some more than I should, I am gonna change it today.
Boss23, I found his site very interesting and gonna read some articles.
Thank y'all for feedback guys, I am willing to hear every piece of advice, because I am so much of a rookie at committed relationships.
First off why monogamy?
Second, Blackdragon is very red pill. What enticed you to drop 3 fuck buddies to commit? There is nothing wrong with open relationship, except what societal programming teaches us over time, we tend to believe we are doing something wrong by not committing to one woman. No matter what you think right now, I guarantee at one point or another, most likely sooner than later, you will become unhappy in a monogamous relationship. YOUR HAPPINESS IS THE MOST IMPORTANT THING IN YOUR LIFE, NO ONE WOMAN SHOULD EVER COME BEFORE THAT.
I am very happy to concentrate on one woman and give her my sincere love. Fuck society, I want to do it, because I want to dedicate myself to her now. This love is much stronger than desire to fuck multiple women. I want this one.
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