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I am in a relationship with a girl my age (19) for around 9 months now.
She doesn't have orgasms frequently if any.
First I thought it was all my fault, cause I never had sex before her.
Maybe she is lying to me but she told me that she:
a) never masturbated in her life
b) never had a orgasm with one of the 2 guys she was in a relationship before me
Last weekend we stayed at a hotel because we went on a short trip. During the day we smoked a little weed and in the evening we were each drinking a cocktail.
She was cumming like crazy her whole body was shaking under me (missionary) it was amazing. She came 2 times.
I realized that she mostly came when we drank alcohol before sex.
In my opinion she has a problem with letting loose and REALLY enjoying sex.
Shes not boring in bed, we are doing a lot of position and she lets me fuck her anal but I think that she's not that confortable with sex.
How can I make her let go everything and just enjoy without always drinking alcohol before sex? Is kratom an option?
She is young and inexperienced. Once she gets more experience this won't be an issue.Just keep banging her as often as you can. Maybe give her a glass of wine for now. The good news is that she can get off and you were the one who made it happen. Just be very understanding and listen to her. Ask her what works the best, positions, oral & foreplay.
This is a great thing for you to experience! You will gain a ton of knowledge that will be useful later in life. I kind of look at pleasing a woman the way a safe cracker looks at a safe. You have to experiment to get the right combination. Once you get it, boom!
Having the ability and the patience to make women cum is very powerful stuff. A lot of guys don't have either.
The weed probably did it as much or more than the alcohol.
She needs to masturbate more and get more comfortable with her body.
One thing she doesn't need is pressure from you (real or perceived) that makes her feel bad if she can't come. Try to just let go, enjoy the sex and reassure her that it doesn't matter whether she has an orgasm or not, that you just want to enjoy the moment and whatever happens happens. And MEAN IT.
This will go a long way toward helping her relax and have orgasms. The weed too, if she likes it.
This is not a big or unusual problem, so don't make it one by treating it like it's a big thing, that will be too counterproductive.
@The Voodoo Child
Thanks for your advice men! Will use the bathmate next time. I will get my own flat next week, it was very hard to use till now cause I share a bathroom with my sister and got nowhere to hide it.
Which brand of phenibut do you recommend? Its kinda hard to get in germany so I could buy it from the US.
Is there somewhere a good "guide" to phenibut?
Thanks man. Would like to try phenibut but its hard to get my hands on it in germany. Which brand do you recommend? Do you know of a "guide" to phenibut?
@rbenn28470 I will try the wine this weekend
Do you really think it was the weed? The dosis was really low. Like 0.5g and I did probably 0.35g of it. We had sex 8 hours later right after the alcohol.
I try to not put pressure on her and I think I do a good job at it. the problem is that she doesn't wan't to masturbate. I honestly don't know why. I asked her a few times to do it but she did it only once. I don't want to keep telling her and make her feel uncomfortable.
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