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TOPIC: Do 'Good Girls' still exist?

Do 'Good Girls' still exist? 23 Aug 2016 14:54 #263826

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CitySleek wrote: Don't forget we r also on a forum about being players so views on marriages are gonna be skewed lol


Lol I know. Regardless, I suppose it's good to get exposure to differing opinions.

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Do 'Good Girls' still exist? 23 Aug 2016 18:00 #263838

I was going to write a long reply here but BIB and Rousseau pretty much covered it. Good job boys.

IMO the two things that destroy our happiness in our romantic lives are societal programming which tells us there is a 'right' and 'wrong' way for people to behave in their romantic lives and biological hard-wiring/instincts that drive us strongly to be possessive and controlling when unfortunately those traits always lead to lots of drama, lying, cheating etc in relationships because people always chafe under the yoke.

In my personal journey, the single greatest achievement in finding happiness in my romantic life was being able to identify why jealousy and possessiveness was so destructive and to then mostly eliminate it from my thought process.
This lead to greater acceptance of women as they actually are instead of how I was programmed to want/expect them to be and the ability to lead a non-monogamous lifestyle free of lying, cheating, drama, etc. and more full of love and happiness than I could have ever imagined.
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Do 'Good Girls' still exist? 23 Aug 2016 18:34 #263840

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Mokele Mbembe wrote: I was going to write a long reply here but BIB and Rousseau pretty much covered it. Good job boys.

IMO the two things that destroy our happiness in our romantic lives are societal programming which tells us there is a 'right' and 'wrong' way for people to behave in their romantic lives and biological hard-wiring/instincts that drive us strongly to be possessive and controlling when unfortunately those traits always lead to lots of drama, lying, cheating etc in relationships because people always chafe under the yoke.

In my personal journey, the single greatest achievement in finding happiness in my romantic life was being able to identify why jealousy and possessiveness was so destructive and to then mostly eliminate it from my thought process.
This lead to greater acceptance of women as they actually are instead of how I was programmed to want/expect them to be and the ability to lead a non-monogamous lifestyle free of lying, cheating, drama, etc. and more full of love and happiness than I could have ever imagined.


I'm glad you've found happiness, and I've nothing against guys that choose to live a non-monogamous life.

I think due to my upbringing, pursuing a monogamous relationship is where my values lie. My parents have been married for 35+ years, and they both appear happy and emotionally fulfilled. I'm not controlling or particularly possessive, but I do place a good deal of value on certain Christian values (perhaps because I was raised as one). I could force myself to continue doing what I'm doing, but I don't think it's ever going to bring me the same level of happiness like it has with you guys. Perhaps as I grow older, I'll have more experiences, and change my mind.

And seriously, who keeps knocking my karma down? I don't believe I've said anything particularly offensive or insulting this far.

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Do 'Good Girls' still exist? 23 Aug 2016 18:55 #263842

Bad Idea Bear wrote: Roll Call, I sense many decades of paranoia and being cheated on in your future
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It does not matter HOW awesome you are, or HOW conservative your girlfriend is. ALL women get sexually bored with their LTRs eventually. It is hard wired into every woman's brain.
You aren't going to avoid getting cuckolded by dating a girl who tells you she has a low partner count, all you're going to do is set yourself up to be emotionally devastated when she eventually has sex with someone else.
Monogamy is a fools game


LOL I am in my second relationship plus fucked 22 chicks and I know LONG TERM monogamy is a big JOKE, from a female AND male point of view. Short term monogamy (2-3 years) is completely attainable however with a QUALITY girl. ALL women (AND MEN) are capable of cheating. Nothing new under the sun. BUT to get into a relationship with a DAMAGED girl is asking for more trouble. Fact is that girls who have a high notch count are not relationship material and are a turn off for most normal men. The only men who accept such high notch counts from their future girlfriends are Hilary Clinton supporters (low testosterone), hippy weed smokers, people in poly/open relationships or porn stars.
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Do 'Good Girls' still exist? 23 Aug 2016 19:02 #263843

Lol opie u rustled some jimmies here

forum.bodybuilding.com/showthread.php?p=...44913#post1456244913

Op read this thread and specially that link

As much as I like GLL i wouldn't take what has been posted regarding this topic too seriously or with a grain of salt. Great forum for hooking up casual what not, not so good for others It's sorta like Going to a kkk meeting discussin the importance of racial equality in the work place.

U can kinda already predict what kind of response will be popular and bias given the culture. I'd look for more general Internet forums on this topic and trust your own life experience

Btw that victor pride article on wife is spot on
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Do 'Good Girls' still exist? 24 Aug 2016 00:08 #263874

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CitySleek wrote: Lol opie u rustled some jimmies here

forum.bodybuilding.com/showthread.php?p=...44913#post1456244913

Op read this thread and specially that link

As much as I like GLL i wouldn't take what has been posted regarding this topic too seriously or with a grain of salt. Great forum for hooking up casual what not, not so good for others It's sorta like Going to a kkk meeting discussin the importance of racial equality in the work place.

U can kinda already predict what kind of response will be popular and bias given the culture. I'd look for more general Internet forums on this topic and trust your own life experience

Btw that victor pride article on wife is spot on


Lol it would appear so.

I'll go and have a look at that link. Thanks!

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