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I have a confession to make - I watched Sense and Sensibility by Jane Austin yesterday (BBC adaption), and have started watching Pride and Prejudice. I'll be honest, I actually quite enjoy them.
What attracted me in particular were the women. The main female protagonists appeared modest, kind, well spoken, polite, and just all-together feminine. They value both motherhood and monogamy. I'd like to give up my hedonistic lifestyle, and pursue something more long term and meaningful with what I'd consider to be a more 'traditional female' like the ones found in Jane Austin's novels. Perhaps this makes me a 'sexist', but I care not. From my experiences of late, I've not really come across many 'feminine' women. I'm starting to question whether there is an ideal woman out there that I could make the mother of my children, or at least live a happy life with. With the inception of 3rd wave feminism and the far-left movement, traditional roles and values are heavily under attack, for better or worse. My question is, do the majority of women buy into the idea that traditional roles regarding 'femininity' are innately oppressive, or are there still plenty out there that value the same qualities I do? Am I being unrealistic in expecting a woman that'll happily be a stay-at-home-mom, and hasn't had several penises inside of her? |
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Honestly This generation won't have that most girls will have had a range between 5-100 different dicks. My current relationship I have she's slept with over 25+ different men some much much larger then me as well. I used to have a huge problem about it and to be honest it still bothers me till this day and we've been together for 3 yrs now. Granted, I've slept with 10x more women than she has men but I have specific views to women as well. Honestly, I wouldn't want to tell you to give up on your dream but I'd tend to focus on what the world of women have to offer than trying to dig for that one gold nugget almost impossible to find unless you dated from high school.
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They never did, they were just forced to act as "good girls" because of the societal norms at that time. Woman didn't have much freedom in the Victorian era. In what concern relationships and sex, I don't think women are much different than man. Although the media constantly portray man as desperate for sex and woman giving it only as sort of "reward", some men have low libido(with normal test levels) and women enjoy sex just as much as men. |
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They do just extremely hard to come by. I know my lady is a "good girl" or else I wouldn't of invested 7 years of my life with her.
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I think they are very rare, and almost non-existant in the west. I'm putting my money on marrying a religious Japanese women, or a fob indian girl.
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I don't know kind of girls you are dating, but a good chunk of the girls I date fall into what you consider "good girls (modest, kind, well spoken, polite, feminine) in this post.
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Short answer: No. Long answer: Yes, but the chance of you finding one is less than getting struck by lightning. “It is not despair, for despair is only for those who see the end beyond all doubt. We do not.”
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Of course they exist.
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My honest opinion is that guys looking for a "good girl" are deeply insecure. The fact that a woman is confident and comfortable with her sexuality and has had a lot of sex frightens them because they know that this woman is more likely to feel like her man doesn't measure up. He worry's if she's been fucked by guys more jacked than him, with a bigger dick than him, cooler than him, and he's worried if she's done crazy sexual shit that she's never done with her man before.
Guy's who are obsessed with the "good girl" are usually DEEPLY insecure, and they worry everyday that their chick is going to run off someday with a guy who has a thicker cock than them. This is why you have gross behaviour like men keeping their chick locked in the house and not letting her go out to see her friends. He is a sad, jealous, deeply insecure man. The truth is that every woman has a little bit of "good girl" in her, and a little bit of "bad girl" in her. Some girls have more "bad girl" than others and some other girls have more "good girl" than others, but it isn't a static thing. There's a good chance your sweet little innocent virgin susie from down the street has taken a 9 inch cock before by a guy she just met and he came all over her face. Does this frighten you? If it does, it's because you're not secure enough in yourself as a man. This is the reason why women lie so much to men about their sexual history. It's because they know that men will cry and moan when they find out he's not the first guy she's fucked with before. I can tell you a funny story about some "good girls" man. I banged a little sweet heart filipino girl before on the first date, and after I tagged this little "innocent good girl" she told me the truth a few weeks later that she has actually fucked with guys a couple of other times that month. Girls are horny and they live in sexual abundance. Do you honestly think your chick hasn't fucked with another guy on the first date before? LOL get real man. With that being said. There are girls who have more family oriented values and who are LESS LIKELY to fuck the mailman when you're at work. But looking for one of these girls is just putting a band-aid over a deep wound. The problem is YOU not 3rd wave feminism or the corrosion of morality or w/e bullshit you read on The Return of Kings.
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Holy shit Rousseau I could not agree more.
I don't think it's a coincidence that I experienced guys are terrified of dating sexually healthy/open girls. I seriously couldn't give less of a fuck how man guys my girl has fucked. It just doesn't matter EDIT: I TRUST girls that are openly slutty. Most of the girls I date are very open with me about their history (even though I never ask about it) because they can sense that I'm not judgemental. I DONT trust girls that play the innocent routine, because I know they're lying. Honestly if you focus on finding non slutty girls, what you're REALLY going to find is girls who are good liars. You will ATTRACT girls who are good at hiding things. I've found that the openly slutty girls just tend to be more honest/principled in all facets of their lives Thanks for everything you guys. It's time for me to move on to bigger things!
So long, and thanks for all the fish!
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LMAO at this post. Strong coping. You honestly just sound like a cuckold. Yes some INEXPERIENCED men would feel insecure around such girls but why the FUCK would any experienced and well off man have to feel 'comfortable' to date and maybe even marry a complete SLUT? The fact of the matter is that some girls are more slutty than others so why in the hell should an attractive, experienced and well off man have to deal with a massive hoe just because he needs to feel confident in himself? LMAO. And of course all girls have fucked 1 or 2 guys on first dates and got fucked in the ass by her previous BF, but to come on here and tell guys that they are insecure for not wanting to date confirmed SLUTS is horrible advice. |
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The truth of the matter is, all of us on here who hit on tons of women and have an abundance mentality put this ideal "innocent girl" in such high regard that we completely forget that if any girl fucks us they literally just fell into the category of the supposed "sluts" you are trying to avoid.
None of us will usually wait a chick out for more than 2-3 dates max to bang, and then we categorize them as "innocent girls" if they have only done this with us, but in reality we're just bringing out their inner slut. Every girl has a sex drive, and it's basically individually dependent which of them let societal norms dictate how much they act upon their sex drives and what they want vs. don't want. Rousseau was spot on and arguing against him I feel you are completely missing the point of what he was saying. I couldn't have explained it any better than he did.
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