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dc7 wrote: Met them via social circle/close/semi-close friends. That is my best guess and usually is the only way girls end up with guys far worse looking than they are.
Right on bro! Just like any girl, they'll go for a below average guy when looking for a relationship, although its nice to fuck/pull one IN their cosplay and makes for a very sexy roleplay, you'll find most of the DTF/sexually available ones have very bad logistics
MY EXPERIENCE: Screen her, roll out with their social circle for a bit and find out logistics, chances are they'll be up to meet the next day or 2. Cold approach works great, especially with the ones that "coincidentally" wear their lingerie for 6 hours straight
I have a very good lifelong female friend in a similar environment who has stated that such nerdy, sensitive, lame guys are "super cute". They see them in more of a friend light, or as their "baby", than a sexual partner. The girl this came from has been fucked and dumped by multiple scumbags (far lower scumbags than Scotty, I imagine), and has an under-achiever (though not scumbag) for a boyfriend.
You guys overthink everything, come back to earth. You don't need to be Zac Efron or Vin Diesel or Dan Blizerian to fuck a chick. You don't need to be a zen master, and you certainly don't need to be 6'4" and on steroids.
The reality is that some girls just like cute nerdy guys.
With that being said, being a dork with zero social skills will rarely get you pussy CONSISTENTLY. So any relationship where the man isn't able to consistently fuck hot girls will be a co-depedentant relationship where the girl will always hold all the power, because the guy can't easily walk away whenever she crosses the line. He'll hold on to that relationship for forever because he can't replace her easily.
Bottom line is: Can you get a hot girl for a girlfriend every now and then as a dork? Yes, but its better to be a pussy magnet so then your chick will be more respectful as you as a man and less likely to cross boundaries.
1) I think Rousseau is completely on base with his answer.
2) They tend to be in a crowd where good looking guys are few and far between. Would you not get with slightly worse looking girls if you were the only good looking one for miles around? Probably. Keep in mind, there's a lot more good looking girls than good looking guys. That's why this kind of thing happens, especially when the good looking guys don't try. Because girls have needs too, and they'll eventually go low to meet them just like us.
Deltsbrah wrote: haha so strange that this thread got bumped now..
I was cosplaying at an convention this weekend, first time i've ever done so and I had people literally lining up to take pics with me including girls.. I'm just a 32yr old virgin in real life but ironically i was super popular when I was in costume haha
super weird for someone like me with zero experience with girls to have some super hot girl run up to them and ask to take a selfie with me.. lol
ps. I'll probably post some of those pics later..
Yeah, at cons, having a cool costume is a great way to interact with people. I wore this DBZ jacket to a con and was getting compliments on it all day. Some were actually making conversing as well.
I never cosplayed but since I use to be a huge nerd into anime/DnD/WoW/power metal/etc, some of my close friends are into cosplaying. A lot of these guys work in highly technical or creative fields making a ton of money. Maybe not a ton in the creative but to girls its like that cool musician. either way cosplayers aren't all losers who play wow in their moms basement.
If sometimes guys here just had female friends and talked with them, they would realize sometimes girls have crushes on super average guys.
A lot of dumb "players" think they are oh-so superior to these normal guys that only fuck 5 girls in their lifetime, that's why they invent dumb red pills theories that say that if the guy is not a male model the girl is probably using him for money. Or theories like "yeah but a girl wouldn't have a one night-stand with him". Like who cares ?!? 90% of people are not interested in ONS.
I always found these musicians that get all the chicks are pretty ugly too. Yet, they get girls.
Maybe some people here should stop being narcissists gym bro that feel superior because they have muscles and realize that looks are only PART of the equation.
Only trust your own experience.
Every beginner's question has a simple answer : go date 100 girls and you will have your answer. Stop asking stupid questions ; that's what girls do.
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