TOPIC: Advice on committed relationship

Girls with respect dint do that. I'd dump her, but then again I'm 'insecure'

hes better looking than me btw

This is a dangerous factor. You need to step your game up and improve looks so you are on par with him or look better. Women will always look to upgrade, but not downgrade.

First off do you really know you can get laid though? I mean really get laid.. I define that as having the ability to pull a new quality girl within a week without necessarily having to take phone numbers or set up dates and without her making you wait for it

I have multiple hot fuckbuddies and 50 notches under my belt and I still don't consider myself in that category... As a matter of fact I only know of like maybe 3 people who actively post on this forum who actually fall into that category

Also, I am no get laid expert or relationship expert but it sounds like you two dont trust each other or respect each other .... You have already cheated on her and it looks like she is either cheating on you already or thinking about it... And you clearly don't trust her for shit... If you don't trust her then what's the point

Btw good luck I hope it all works out

Dont sweat it man. This is a small-scale problem. In life, there are 3 types of problems: small-scale, middle-scale and large scale. Just keep banging her and if she leaves you, so what? Find another girl. You're just a human after all and shit like this will happen to everyone. You will learn and grow stronger from it. No biggie.

I pray to god I have a problem like this in this future lol. But with my dysfunctioning dick, it seems unlikely. This is a large scale problem and it has affected my whole well-being and life. Overall, don't stress it. It's a small problem.

JamesN wrote: Dont sweat it man. This is a small problem. Just keep banging her and if she leaves you, so what? Find another girl. You're just a human after all and shit like this will happen to everyone.

I pray to god I have a problem like this in this future lol. But with my dysfunctioning dick, it seems unlikely. Don't stress it. It's a small problem.

^This^

I am probably a little older than most on here and my problem isn't related to getting women... Not bragging at all man, honestly, most people sit behind a computer screen and they instantly have fucked hundreds of women, their dick is 18 inches long, they are making MAD money, etc. when in reality they are the complete opposite of this "online fictional person" they WISH to be.... I'm not saying that about YOU or ANYONE on this site, know this! I actually feel I "connect" with Chris and most people here even though I'm new because... well I don't "smell" a lot of bullshit like that... we all have unique problems or things we would like to strengthen.

I just feel like I need to say that so people don't take me as trying to "brag" or a "bullshitter"... I have no reason too do such I'm giving any insight I've learned in my life as maybe it will help even just 1 person... BTW, people who brag about what they"have", how big their dick is, money, etc. ARE BULLSHITTERS! If you have a BIG DICK, you don't talk about it....YOU FUCKING USE IT! If you have MAD MONEY, you don't brag about it... fuck more money more problems is real shit... So know that just in general...

With that being said, the first thing I that bothered me reading your post is the straight up fact you "talked shit" on yourself multiple times by saying this other dude is better looking, better body, etc. One of the few FUNDAMENTAL things you must learn in life to fully be happy is.... YOU ARE WHO YOU ARE, PERIOD. It's easier to say that than accept in your situation but trust me man. Some of us are blessed genetically with certain traits, some people were born rich, some people were born poor as fuck, some people were born BLIND or some crazy sad physical condition...

There's always going to be someone "better than you at certain things or have more", that's just fucking life my man. Be blessed of all the GOOD things you have achieved/or have... If you realize that, then focus on improving certain aspects of your life you feel you necessary then by all means do it! Just realize, you might not be Brad Pitt or have genetics to be the next Mr. Olympia, but who cares... You and everything about you no one else has... Work on polishing yourself and building yourself FOR WHO YOU WANT TO BE REALISTICALLY....

Now, this whole "Love" shit you talk about... I say this to help you... probably so hard to grasp your mind around this... I know I've been there man... But, you shouldn't CHANGE for ANYONE! Be confident and when your ready yourself... then women will notice YOU... and want YOU for who YOU are...

A picture is worth a 1,000 words... I saw your avatar pic so do this my man...

Get on youtube and play Jay Z - Imaginary Player while staring at this pic! Then close your eyes and vibe on to him... For real!

Lol damn man replying to your post has got me playing my old Jay Z playlist... Yeah, some people are going to say rap is "ignorant" as shit...

But some classic old school Jay Z... reminds me WHY I wake up everyday and I won't settle for average....

Some people will NEVER understand nor want the lifestyle I am living/will surpass... Let alone understand what these two verses that make me tick...

1.) "Be truthful, how you think you gonna feel?
You pull up in your 4.0 with your bitch
I pull up in my 4.6 with my bitch bumping some other shit, you know?
You probably hop on my dick right there in front of your bitch
Ask me some stupid shit like "yo , yo dog, whats the difference between a 4.0 and a 4.6?" like 30-40 grand cocksucka
beat it!"
***^^Shutting haters down without saying much... dream and make that moment happen, do it for the people who said you couldn't!^^***


Second fav Jay Z murdering the haters again... Seriously close your eyes and listen vibe out and paint a picture of WHO YOU ARE GOING TO BECOME!

2.) Well look at the pic can't copy and paste....

****SORRY GUYS... Not trying to spam just music that motivates me lol I'm done ****

BeastModeAllDay wrote: Lol damn man replying to your post has got me playing my old Jay Z playlist... Yeah, some people are going to say rap is "ignorant" as shit...

But some classic old school Jay Z... reminds me WHY I wake up everyday and I won't settle for average....

Some people will NEVER understand nor want the lifestyle I am living/will surpass... Let alone understand what these two verses that make me tick...

1.) "Be truthful, how you think you gonna feel?
You pull up in your 4.0 with your bitch
I pull up in my 4.6 with my bitch bumping some other shit, you know?
You probably hop on my dick right there in front of your bitch
Ask me some stupid shit like "yo , yo dog, whats the difference between a 4.0 and a 4.6?" like 30-40 grand cocksucka
beat it!"
***^^Shutting haters down without saying much... dream and make that moment happen, do it for the people who said you couldn't!^^***


Second fav Jay Z murdering the haters again... Seriously close your eyes and listen vibe out and paint a picture of WHO YOU ARE GOING TO BECOME!

2.) Well look at the pic can't copy and paste....

****SORRY GUYS... Not trying to spam just music that motivates me lol I'm done ****

2pac for life

OK
I need your input guys

Maybe I was making a big deal out of it and making mountains out of molehills here
I should give it some serious thought before I make a big decision like breaking up with her.



Any thoughts and experience from these things.
Should I be more grateful that I have this girl?
or am I settling for less?

Thanks

If you explicitly told her not to talk to this guy, and she keeps lying and saying she doesn't talk to him then I would next her.

However, if she's only liking his pictures then I would chill.

all i can say is make sure u have another girl rdy to go if u breakup with her.

if u don't, ur gonna end up regretting it for awhile and trying to get back with her.

u think u won't, but u will if u don't have a solid rebound girl. its happened to me a lot.

Let us know what you decide.