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I would just keep an eye on it. If she is attractive your gonna have to deal with guys trying to hit it. Unless she is giving you a reason to think she is cheating I would try really hard not to be all insecure about it. She comes home to you at the end of the day. Step your game up treat her good and she won't stray. If she does then she ain't worth it anyway.
You said that you know you can get laid. The question is does she? The leverage is in the man's hands when the girl KNOWS that if she cheats or leaves the guy he could have another hotter piece of tail in his lap in a matter of days. Doesn't sound like you give off that vibe to her though getting all bent out of shape over it. Honestly though, this will be a controversial topic because some guys might say shit like "you're being beta and insecure by acting like you care and calling her out". Ya, if it was my gf and she was flirting with other dudes I'd call her the fuck out for sure as well. Usually if they value you as a bf and know you can move on in the blink of an eye they won't do this shit though. If I was in your situation I'd probably just start keeping my options a bit more open if you know what I mean. Starting to flirt a bit with other girls when you're out etc. Not even a ploy to make her jealous, just to harmlessly flirt "like she's doing" and then if she does cheat then fuck her you have X amount of broads ready for you to take out. I'd be ready to next her in a heartbeat if she keeps this shit up after you've called her out on it.
Django wrote: Sup yo
Havent been here in a while and have a question ONLY for you guys that have experience in LTR's and fucked a decent amount of girls
I have a GF of 6 months
She told me she stopped contacting this particular guy friend in her social circle (this guy would obviously flirt with her through text while she was in a commited relationship with me and she was cool with it)
I called her out on this. We had MANY hours of arguements over this white knight faggot (hes better looking than me btw)
so she ended up deciding that itd be better for our relationship if she told him that they cant contact each other anymore.
But they still follow each other on instagram. And hes posting up mad sexual shirtless pics and shes liking all of them. But still claims they dont talk to each other. (she doesnt know I have instagram)
Should I call her out on this shit or leave it alone.
If I call her out on her liking this guy body pics, will I seem insecure?
or am I right in this situation and confront her about it.
This guy (better looking slightly) is obsessed with my girl. Ever since we were in a relationship hed put up lowkey pics and statuses that are OBVIOUSLY about her, loverydovey white knight faggot shit.
Im just afraid that shes gonna fall for that pussy shit cause Im still a badboy/player in her mind.
I had her as fuckbuddy for 2 months before locking down and I had another girl on rotation at the time too so I KNOW I can get laid. The problem is that I dont know if Ill find a girl as cool as her.
Thanks for the help guys I need it. THis is my first relationship
Be as harsh and straightforward as you want
Experienced members only respond please, I hope you guys understand. No keyboard warriors plzzzz
She knows you feel this way and she knows you're willing to put up with a little bullshit.
No offense, but this sounds like a sinking ship. This is the very start of her beginning to disrespect you repeatedly.
I would say "Listen, if you continue to talk to this guy, flirt with this guy, send each other little messages and what not, that is fine with me. But, we can't be together when you're doing it. I'm going to do my own thing, and you can go off and do yours with this guy. We can both move on, and be happier. It's your move."
After you draw the line, if she disrespects you again. NEXT HER.
Ya Termi is probably right. Ultimately, do whatever you want. There's no rule book that says if she's talking to another dude who likes her that you need to dump her or you're a chump. If you wanna stick around, stick around, if it bothers you so much that it eats you up then drop her and move on. Up to you. I know there are some girls I've dated from the fitness industry that have tonns of other juiced up gym bros going after them and they like eachother's pics on instagram and what not, doesn't mean the girl is going to fuck them or is even interested despite how much the guy wants them.
Yeah that reminds me; there's this fitness chick I've fucked and we're close friends. Every time I put a picture on instagram or FB she will like it, and she will comment how hot I am and whatnot and call me hun, even if she's dating someone. That would probably make the other dude jealous, much like you. But we would never have sex or do anything despite the flirtation. That's because we're friends. Just saying that there's not necessarily anything to it.
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