TOPIC: opinion on getting an islamic wife.

What are your guys opinions on women that are hot. Can they be loyal? is it possible? VP says that picking the right wife is gonna be a 6 or 7 but shes gonna be loyal. I know precisely which kind of girls hes talking about. These girls are everywhere in our islamic culture. My parents are willing to give me a women who is loyal to me. Ill probably marry when im 30 - something. But my question is what GLL's opinion is on settling like B&D suggests. You did wrote that in your mental insecurities article. That once your able to get Laid and eventually youll settle with a hot and loyal girlfriend.

GllismyBigbrother wrote: What are your guys opinions on women that are hot. Can they be loyal? is it possible? VP says that picking the right wife is gonna be a 6 or 7 but shes gonna be loyal. I know precisely which kind of girls hes talking about. These girls are everywhere in our islamic culture. My parents are willing to give me a women who is loyal to me. Ill probably marry when im 30 - something. But my question is what GLL's opinion is on settling like B&D suggests. You did wrote that in your mental insecurities article. That once your able to get Laid and eventually youll settle with a hot and loyal girlfriend.

men nor women are loyal. The loyalty comes from fear. Not because she likes you so much. Fear from getting rejected by their relatives. In extreme cases some guys in your "islamic culture" beat and kill their wives if she is not playing by the rules. So much for alphaness These guys must be insecure and have small dicks.

Oh btw FYI, there are also loyal woman other than "islamic cultures"

Yeah, I know you don´t like to hear this. Who cares.

It's relative, not absolute. You usually end up with a reflection of your real self.

GllismyBigbrother wrote: What are your guys opinions on women that are hot. Can they be loyal? is it possible? VP says that picking the right wife is gonna be a 6 or 7 but shes gonna be loyal. I know precisely which kind of girls hes talking about. These girls are everywhere in our islamic culture. My parents are willing to give me a women who is loyal to me. Ill probably marry when im 30 - something. But my question is what GLL's opinion is on settling like B&D suggests. You did wrote that in your mental insecurities article. That once your able to get Laid and eventually youll settle with a hot and loyal girlfriend.

First, I would examine the reasons behind your need for 'loyalty', and what it actually means to you. Sexually exclusive? Or in a broader sense, being on your side, working as a team that always has each other's back.
What exactly is jealousy? Why do you feel it? What purpose does it serve? Think about these questions deeply as you go through life and try to find a path to consistent happiness. Too many men go through life paranoid and jealous, and very unhappy because of it, without once considering why they feel this way or that there may be another way to approach their dealings with the women in their lives.

As for 'hot' women and exclusive relationships; there is no universal standard for 'hot' and so there can be no universal traits assigned to these women. It really is all in your head. There are plenty of 'ugly' women who will take any opportunity to cheat like hell, there are gorgeous women who are loyal to a fault. It's all about cultural and family values, moral character, willpower, confidence and the perception of how one is valued by another in a relationship.

I have had over 25 years of relationship experience, mostly serial monogamy with one marriage and I have found that I am most happy single or in non-monogamous relationships. I recommend getting a lot of experience before committing to a serious relationship and I strongly discourage one from getting into a traditional monogamous marriage if you do choose to marry. Look closely at married couples and you find that a long-term marriage is rarely happy or truly monogamous, and usually neither. In fact a long-term marriage is rare in itself, good or otherwise.

Islamic wife. That sounds kinda hot. "Wife, you will now spread your legs for me, inshallah"

I wouldn't worry or concern yourself with any correlation to hotter women being more likely to cheat. Really, there is only one prescribed course of action, regardless of what you want:

1) Fuck lots of girls
2) fuck hot girls
3) fuck lots of hot girls
4) have multiple fuck buddies

If you want to get into a relationship, because you never have been in one, then its not a bad idea... by doing these things you will learn and be able to tell what women are "loyal"... You don't necissarly have to do these in order... just do them, and life will present what you want in the process.

That is basically what I have ended up with. An " Islamic" wife who only tightened the screws on her previous lifestyle after meeting and hooking up with me. She gives me all the fuckings, food and free time that I want. I mean, what else does a guy want? AND I dont have to use a friggin condom. God I hate those things.

After tangling with married women and several short term flings, I had to make a decision. I think by that time I had almost gotten cynical with everything going on with me. Most of what you have written is naivete, you really have not gotten out there and messed around, gotten burned etc. Women are people, men are people, both humans with vanity and wants and desires.

After a year of marriage or monogamy, "hot" doesn't mean jack shit. Just another face. Plenty of people cheat before, during and after their marriages.

One thing is for sure. You are alone in this world. You could be in a long term relationship like mine, and she potentially treat you like shit if you let her, and vice versa. She happens to treat me better than I treat myself, because we communicate and I mostly fill her desires quickly while keeping my own life filled.

This is what I meant by relative and not absolute. Women are emotional creatures. They catch on to your vibes in their ways and it either jives and rings true or you are in for a world of hurt. They become a direct reflection of your view of yourself. Beauty is only skin deep,

I am going to keep religion out of this forum. With few exceptions there is no such thing as an Islamic wife. You want an Islamic wife, she's gonna have hijab, wont do oral, wants it dark in the room, wont do it in the laundry room, wont mingle with other men, doesnt drink and so on and so forth.

Look at yourself in the mirror. Are you a player or are you a guy into long term relationships? If you want marriage, just dont forget the prenuptial agreement.

Dudes tbh I wld love to settle with an hot and loyal wife somewhere in my 30's or 40's. But what I notice with my own eyes is the fact that hot and loyal dont go together. And most girls I meet again I have fucked the same night. I see.that these islamic women stay LOYAL as fuck. Out of fear out of love IDGAF. I wldnt wanna start a family w/ a chick I fucked on the first date. Can you actually measure loyalty. BTW thnx for the responses and insights.

Lolz

GllismyBigbrother wrote: what I notice with my own eyes is the fact that hot and loyal dont go together. And most girls I meet again I have fucked the same night. I see.that these islamic women stay LOYAL as fuck. Out of fear out of love IDGAF. I wldnt wanna start a family w/ a chick I fucked on the first date.

How do you know who is 'loyal'? Women are masters of deception my friend, mostly because they can lie to themselves way better than most men can. The first step in telling a good lie of course is to believe it yourself, and chicks got that shit down solid. You will never know for sure if anyone you are with is perfectly 'loyal'. I suggest getting over the childish notion that the women you're with aren't going to fuck other guys or that it's a bad thing if she does. Great relationships work when both parties constantly work to be of value to each other and never take each other for granted. If you both know that you can and will fuck other people you'll be less likely to take each other for granted, and you'll also know that you're still together because you want to be, not because you have to be.

If you don't want to start a family with a chick you fucked on the first date then why do you fuck chicks on the first date yourself? Do you think you'll actually get a girl who doesn't fuck on the first date or just a chick that didn't fuck you on the first date?

GllismyBigbrother wrote: Dudes tbh I wld love to settle with an hot and loyal wife somewhere in my 30's or 40's. .

Only 1 Wife!!!!! You need 4 wives mashallah!!!!

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Well I´ve seen a lot of "islamic wives all covered up like a ghost or the Grimm Reaper. There are not hot in my eyes. Most of them are really fat. But what do I know. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.