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Im following rooster's guide for online dating. Met a girl who is a solid 8,5. Kept texting her for 2 days because she was showing a lot of interest, really, this girl was the most excited that I've ever seen to meet me.
Met her at the mall, went to the movies, everthing normal. Only 2 problems ocurred: She did not let me hold her hand(she told me she did not want anybody tell her brother that she was dating(She's 18, Im 21) and she was not even close to the excitement that she showed when she was texting me, not even close. But she was normal by the way, normal conversation, normal touching..We kissed each other in an agressive style at the parking lot, and I noticed that she liked it, after making out we went to see the movie and didnt kiss again.
After the movie, said goodbye and went home. 1 day after, I texted her because I forgot my bracelet with her, she is texting me normally, and I mentioned that she could come here to see me and bring the bracelet. She said "maybe I will go". After this event, she is not starting any conversations(shed started all of them before) through text, and is not showing any sign of affection. Im inexperienced on dating(10 max) but I think I did nothing wrong.
So here's my question, do you think she has any interest left? When should I try to meet her again?(how many days). Thanks for reading.
Schedule a meet-up again, and if she doesn't respond or agree to meet up, move on.
I went on a date with an 8/10 indian girl the one time, and it was great. We were making out, and she was talking how much she wanted to hang out with me again and how much she liked kissing me. We held hands, and I thought everything was perfect. She drove me home, and we were making out in my driveway hardcore. I invited her into my home, obviously insinuating that we were going to fuck. She said that she couldn't because she had to pick up her dad immediately.
2 days later I see her in the halls at school, and she completely ignores me. Then she ignored my text messages. We never talked again.
First of all, I think it'd be a good practice that people say what country they are from before they ask any dating advice. Social norms, vary from country to country and advices people will give, might be counter-productive!
My reasoning on this cases is that this type of girls, are the ones that have the highest social conditioning. They usually don't date, or go that far with a guy(making out, showing genuine interest). Both of your cases, I'd guess they were horny, aka: sexually available. They were horny enough to not care about the social conditioning(feeling like a slut) for a day, but after the hornyness went away they felt guilty/slutty about it and stopped replying or got cold!
ETA, Im from Brazil, culture here is pretty much like in US.
I texted her today, and guess what, she's taking hours to answer me, she is responding normally but I can see that something is different. . I asked her if she wanted to hang out again, she said "maybe", I said "okay" and didnt text anymore, time to move on. Yeah guys, like you said, it can be any number of reasons, the shitty thing is that it only happens when we like the girl's presence lol. I will have to see her again anyway(no dating), got to take back my bracelet.
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