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Girl I have been dating suddenly lost interest, and IDK why! 13 Mar 2015 23:57 #192969

Whats up GLL fam, I met a really nice girl and asked her out, we connected great! I thought I was doing everything right, I went to her place and kissed her and she seemed really into it , we hung out again today and it just seemed like she completely lost interest, and at the end of the date she gave me a weak hug and said good bye and turned her head pretty quickly so I wouldnt kiss her I think! I thought I had been doing everything right but I cant figure out where I went wrong, can anyone help me understand this??

Side notes: We have hung out about 7 times.
I only texted/called to set up dates.
Up until today she seemed really interested.
It seemed that we had really good chemistry.
I have not been needy at all ( which is different for me lol )

Anyways if anyone has some words of wisdom let me have it!
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Girl I have been dating suddenly lost interest, and IDK why! 14 Mar 2015 00:16 #192973

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you won't figure it out
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Girl I have been dating suddenly lost interest, and IDK why! 14 Mar 2015 00:27 #192975

I wouldn't read too much into it, in fact do you remember Chris's post about sexual availability?

www.goodlookingloser.com/entry/picking-u...-sexual-availability

I've experienced this myself with a few girls I've been with, they're all batshit crazy LOL
The fools in life want everything easy.

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Girl I have been dating suddenly lost interest, and IDK why! 14 Mar 2015 00:29 #192976

I have not read that but I'm going to read it now , we havent fvcked but It seemed like she wanted a relationship with me and thats what I wanted also but I cant seem to find out where I went wrong!

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Girl I have been dating suddenly lost interest, and IDK why! 14 Mar 2015 00:33 #192978

Ahh I see, well generally from my experience I'd always seek a sexual basis first. Majority of the 'relationship/affection' first girls I've been with turned out pretty shit in comparison to sex first basis. But you'll see why other guys will tell you the same thing is that you probably didn't do anything wrong in the first place and it's usually based on her.
The fools in life want everything easy.
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Girl I have been dating suddenly lost interest, and IDK why! 14 Mar 2015 00:36 #192979

That is true on my part too lol I just havent had much experience so I figured if you want a relationship dont go for sex too soon lol! At least I'm learning, this girl was really cool and I'm not even sure that she lost interest but it seems like it lol. Thanks for the reply, that makes a lot of sense!

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Girl I have been dating suddenly lost interest, and IDK why! 14 Mar 2015 01:41 #192999

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You went out with her 7 times, and didn't fuck her! She got tired of waiting, that's it! If you want a girl to feel attached to you, you got to sleep with her! To girls, there are two types of guys..guys they sleep with and the rest!
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Girl I have been dating suddenly lost interest, and IDK why! 14 Mar 2015 04:10 #193025

Solid Advice, and I think she was DTF, however I live with my parents and she lives with her parents ( and has a kid) and I didnt want the first time to be in the back of my car and I still wouldnt know how to propose we do it in a car haha! I guess I need to read more threads on here!

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Girl I have been dating suddenly lost interest, and IDK why! 14 Mar 2015 18:14 #193106

“You can spend minutes, hours, days, weeks, or even months over-analyzing a situation; trying to put the pieces together, justifying what could've, would've happened... or you can just leave the pieces on the floor and move the fuck on.”
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Girl I have been dating suddenly lost interest, and IDK why! 15 Mar 2015 14:56 #193300

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Girl I have been dating suddenly lost interest, and IDK why! 15 Mar 2015 16:11 #193310

Ah very good ideA! I thought about a hotel room but didnt know how to propose it lol! I'll definitely try this with the next one!

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Girl I have been dating suddenly lost interest, and IDK why! 15 Mar 2015 17:38 #193322

Hey man I'm so happy you seem like a mirror image of me (except more jacked :P!) mentally/ physically

I'm taking a girl I really like out for a third date tonight and definitely will have the fourth date possibly using the method stated by @KeepYourHeadUp *** EVEN IF SHE REJECTS THE IDEA - SHE KNOWS WHATS UP :evil: :lol: which is good ***
"me: Do you like massage?
girl: Yes
me: I will have proposition
girl: What proposition?
me: Wine, ice cream, and massage.
Girl: I like it!
They agree, you rent the hotel room and tell her to have free night and morning.
You bring the whine they bring olive and ice crams."

I really like that you have the same outlook as me. You take relationships with a grain of salf. Granted this is my very first one and even if it doesn't work out I am okay with it however I am banking on it to go long-term cause I am just that type of guy. I like quality > quantity :) - take is as an excuse but I don't give a fuck I like my quality women/emotional connection :D

Best of luck with your future approaches / encounters with women and hope you can reconnect with her OR someone else pops up. This community is bomb. Cheers! :)
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