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Whats up GLL fam, I met a really nice girl and asked her out, we connected great! I thought I was doing everything right, I went to her place and kissed her and she seemed really into it , we hung out again today and it just seemed like she completely lost interest, and at the end of the date she gave me a weak hug and said good bye and turned her head pretty quickly so I wouldnt kiss her I think! I thought I had been doing everything right but I cant figure out where I went wrong, can anyone help me understand this??
Side notes: We have hung out about 7 times.
I only texted/called to set up dates.
Up until today she seemed really interested.
It seemed that we had really good chemistry.
I have not been needy at all ( which is different for me lol )
Anyways if anyone has some words of wisdom let me have it!
Ahh I see, well generally from my experience I'd always seek a sexual basis first. Majority of the 'relationship/affection' first girls I've been with turned out pretty shit in comparison to sex first basis. But you'll see why other guys will tell you the same thing is that you probably didn't do anything wrong in the first place and it's usually based on her.
That is true on my part too lol I just havent had much experience so I figured if you want a relationship dont go for sex too soon lol! At least I'm learning, this girl was really cool and I'm not even sure that she lost interest but it seems like it lol. Thanks for the reply, that makes a lot of sense!
You went out with her 7 times, and didn't fuck her! She got tired of waiting, that's it! If you want a girl to feel attached to you, you got to sleep with her! To girls, there are two types of guys..guys they sleep with and the rest!
Solid Advice, and I think she was DTF, however I live with my parents and she lives with her parents ( and has a kid) and I didnt want the first time to be in the back of my car and I still wouldnt know how to propose we do it in a car haha! I guess I need to read more threads on here!
“You can spend minutes, hours, days, weeks, or even months over-analyzing a situation; trying to put the pieces together, justifying what could've, would've happened... or you can just leave the pieces on the floor and move the fuck on.”
Hey man I'm so happy you seem like a mirror image of me (except more jacked !) mentally/ physically
I'm taking a girl I really like out for a third date tonight and definitely will have the fourth date possibly using the method stated by @KeepYourHeadUp *** EVEN IF SHE REJECTS THE IDEA - SHE KNOWS WHATS UP which is good ***
"me: Do you like massage?
me: I will have proposition
girl: What proposition?
me: Wine, ice cream, and massage.
Girl: I like it!
They agree, you rent the hotel room and tell her to have free night and morning.
You bring the whine they bring olive and ice crams."
I really like that you have the same outlook as me. You take relationships with a grain of salf. Granted this is my very first one and even if it doesn't work out I am okay with it however I am banking on it to go long-term cause I am just that type of guy. I like quality > quantity - take is as an excuse but I don't give a fuck I like my quality women/emotional connection
Best of luck with your future approaches / encounters with women and hope you can reconnect with her OR someone else pops up. This community is bomb. Cheers!
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