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Girlfriend almost dumped me over rough sex 13 Mar 2015 17:58 #192889

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I think AMJ hit the nail on the head. She sounds like she is inexperienced in the bed room, and because of this, she's probably feeling uncomfortable. When I first started dating a past ex, she had never had an orgasm before, and she was super uncomfortable with me at times during sex because she didn't feel like a "sex kitten"...her words not mine...After awhile though, she starts becoming more comfortable, and it led to orgasms, rough sex, sensual sex, cum here cum there, etc.

As for being pussy whipped...Only you can control that. I wouldn't say you're whipped, I'd say you just like this girl, and want this relationship to work. She's probably using the rough sex deal as a defense mechanism to make up for her own insecurities with you in the bedroom. Relationships are give and take. 50/50...as soon as the tilt shifts in either direction then one of you will go crazy.

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Girlfriend almost dumped me over rough sex 13 Mar 2015 18:09 #192893

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Gshep11 wrote: face to fertilize.


Made my night, :lol:

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Girlfriend almost dumped me over rough sex 15 Mar 2015 08:25 #193268

Well everyone was right,

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Girlfriend almost dumped me over rough sex 16 Mar 2015 09:00 #193535

Gamebreaker32 wrote: Well everyone was right, the rubicon was crossed and there was no going back. We are broken up.


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Girlfriend almost dumped me over rough sex 16 Mar 2015 15:06 #193575

bigger cities and game.

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Girlfriend almost dumped me over rough sex 16 Mar 2015 16:58 #193587

Bro you seem like a pretty nice guy, as she also told you. These are the types of things that can make you cold/hard toward women and relationships and that's not a good place to be. Hopefully it makes you wise and you look at it as a learning experience to try to pick up on certain clues. People grow apart and loose feelings, it happens. Glad your in good spirits !!!

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Girlfriend almost dumped me over rough sex 16 Mar 2015 17:03 #193589

Gamebreaker32 wrote: What terminator said about her not being turned on was spot on. Hung out Saturday, things were going alright until at the end of the night when I go to start kissing her she straight up rejects me. I try again, another rejection, I get up and say some things, try again and rejection. I tell her I feel we could have had something special and her issues with our relationship are fixable, she says some stuff and says she doesn't really want to try to fix them. I tell her I feel we have similarities and some other things, then I tell her have a good night and drive 50 miles home at 3 am. She sends me a text saying she was sorry for being mean but she didn't know how to end it, and that Im a great person and good friend. I didn't reply. She sends me text last night asking if Im okay, I thought about not replying but I just say Im fine, and I am fine although yesterday was kind of long. So that's the end of it, I'm kind of excited to get back into Game, was starting to get good right before I got with current girl, pulled first threesome weekend before fucking current girlfriend, and I graduate college in a couple months and will have more free time to travel to bigger cities and game.


Upon the first rejection for kissing, something you've done in the past, you leave. She knows you were there for that, and for sex, and she didn't cancel beforehand. If it were a relationship with fewer foundational issues, I'd advise a freeze out, where you say "Oh, OK" and start playing on your phone and deny her your attention until she comes around. But she was already checked out of the relationship.

In this case, when she starts objecting to kissing, you eject. You say OK, grab your jacket, and leave. Do not discuss. Do not give her closure. Do not ask any questions. Just leave. Deep down, you knew it was over, so don't drag it out.

Now that you're away from her, do not accept her calls. Do not return her texts. Put her on a zero-contact, zero-information plan. No social media connections. Normally I'd say "for six months" but this girl is too immature and unstable, and you don't have the frame (currently) to have resumption of communications anywhere in your headspace. She's going to call. She's going to text. She's going to do anything she can to keep a string attached to you, and you've got to be teflon-coated right now. Do not become an orbiter, no matter how distant. This is so you can focus on getting the next girls, college, and whatever else you have that is more important than her. (And right now, even burping the ABC's is more important than her).

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Girlfriend almost dumped me over rough sex 24 Mar 2015 01:27 #195372

best course of action?

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Girlfriend almost dumped me over rough sex 24 Mar 2015 06:15 #195424

Indifference is the best course of action. Acknowledge her, but don't be nice or mean or any sort of emotion. She's just some girl at the bar you don't care about.

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Girlfriend almost dumped me over rough sex 27 Mar 2015 17:01 #196257

ultratyght wrote: Indifference is the best course of action. Acknowledge her, but don't be nice or mean or any sort of emotion. She's just some girl at the bar you don't care about.


I agree with this.

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Girlfriend almost dumped me over rough sex 27 Mar 2015 19:40 #196289

This girl is a waste of your time man. She is being weird over getting a nice load on her face? fuck that.

Move on with your life. If you want to shoot her a text now and then that is fine but I wouldn't give her much thought.
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Girlfriend almost dumped me over rough sex 27 Mar 2015 20:08 #196292

plan on moving to Austin, Texas or Vegas in 4-5 months

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