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I think AMJ hit the nail on the head. She sounds like she is inexperienced in the bed room, and because of this, she's probably feeling uncomfortable. When I first started dating a past ex, she had never had an orgasm before, and she was super uncomfortable with me at times during sex because she didn't feel like a "sex kitten"...her words not mine...After awhile though, she starts becoming more comfortable, and it led to orgasms, rough sex, sensual sex, cum here cum there, etc.
As for being pussy whipped...Only you can control that. I wouldn't say you're whipped, I'd say you just like this girl, and want this relationship to work. She's probably using the rough sex deal as a defense mechanism to make up for her own insecurities with you in the bedroom. Relationships are give and take. 50/50...as soon as the tilt shifts in either direction then one of you will go crazy. You'll figure it out. If you don't, I promise you will find a girl with a face to fertilize. Alpha or bust.
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Well everyone was right,
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Think positive, now you learned from this experience. Never give in! ![]() |
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bigger cities and game.
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Bro you seem like a pretty nice guy, as she also told you. These are the types of things that can make you cold/hard toward women and relationships and that's not a good place to be. Hopefully it makes you wise and you look at it as a learning experience to try to pick up on certain clues. People grow apart and loose feelings, it happens. Glad your in good spirits !!!
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Upon the first rejection for kissing, something you've done in the past, you leave. She knows you were there for that, and for sex, and she didn't cancel beforehand. If it were a relationship with fewer foundational issues, I'd advise a freeze out, where you say "Oh, OK" and start playing on your phone and deny her your attention until she comes around. But she was already checked out of the relationship. In this case, when she starts objecting to kissing, you eject. You say OK, grab your jacket, and leave. Do not discuss. Do not give her closure. Do not ask any questions. Just leave. Deep down, you knew it was over, so don't drag it out. Now that you're away from her, do not accept her calls. Do not return her texts. Put her on a zero-contact, zero-information plan. No social media connections. Normally I'd say "for six months" but this girl is too immature and unstable, and you don't have the frame (currently) to have resumption of communications anywhere in your headspace. She's going to call. She's going to text. She's going to do anything she can to keep a string attached to you, and you've got to be teflon-coated right now. Do not become an orbiter, no matter how distant. This is so you can focus on getting the next girls, college, and whatever else you have that is more important than her. (And right now, even burping the ABC's is more important than her). |
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best course of action?
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Indifference is the best course of action. Acknowledge her, but don't be nice or mean or any sort of emotion. She's just some girl at the bar you don't care about.
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I agree with this. |
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This girl is a waste of your time man. She is being weird over getting a nice load on her face? fuck that.
Move on with your life. If you want to shoot her a text now and then that is fine but I wouldn't give her much thought.
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plan on moving to Austin, Texas or Vegas in 4-5 months
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