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So I finally figured out how to post a topic. Haha. Anyways. Here's my dilemma. I've got this girl I've been seeing for about two weeks now. She had me pegged as a player when I started talking to her, however I'm not I just portrayed myself as one. The lay was pretty easily had and I didn't think much of her at the start. Now overtime things have become more close between us. So I have this roommate and he has a girlfriend also. His girlfriend and my body both seem to like this girl too. Prob is my buddy is one of those serial "I'm going to try and flirt with your girl" types. This kid won't approach on the streets or in bars but he will come over and hijack if he sees a buddy of his opening a set. So anyways she kept asking for her Facebook. Saying let's be friends we should be friends on Facebook blah blah blah. She accepted both him and his gf. Now I'm left feeling stupid and like a little bitch because I know this is his M.O. To try and Mack on taken girls. This shit is really bothering me because it goes further than that. He will invite her out with him and his gf when he knows I'm going to be at work and even say it in front of me. She just thinks he's being friendly but I think otherwise. Now I'm starting to lean towards just ducking her phone calls and ignoring her. Not sure what to do as pathetic as it sounds. Any advice appreciated
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Keep your girls away from him from now on.
Start flirting with his gf in front of him..... Ask his gf to go out with you and your lady friend when you know he is busy. Start liking and commenting on his gfs Facebook posts.... C'mon man, this is an easy one. |
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Yeah. That's a good idea to start flirting with his gf. Thing is I don't do that to buddies and have never even tried to flirt with his ex gfs who were blatantly flirting with me in front of him cuz I just don't think it's cool to do that to a friend. But at this point I guess I'll just have to do exactly that so he can get a taste of his own meds. For a long time I didn't have a gf because I was busy filing for divorce and didn't want to get my shit even more messed up by bringing someone else into it. But now ironically enough by following the advice on gll in actually putting off a player vibe which I find hysterical. Next question is how to keep that player vibe going. I think the answer is to get more potential fbs?
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I never hit on my friends girls, it's just disrespectful. But...... in this case you are doing it to make a point.
and yes...... One fb is NOT enough.
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Yea man because you are only early FB's firstly you need to be ok with the fact that she can go out and freely suck any dick she wants. It blows but you just gotta be ok with that and having that kind of mindset will actually work in favor of you as far as getting the girl loyal (counter inuitive I know). So this will stop you from acting jealous. The thing is, if this was your GF then you would have every right to punch this mother fucker in his throat to make sure he understands he will never get at your girl again.
But it's fair game if she ain't exclusive and the more jealous you get, then the more likely she will go get some new cock. But yea man you gotta do what Klbsa, start getting at his girl and let him know you are a sexual threat to her. Perhaps it will get him to back off...Perhaps you will even score her. Double points! Cause let's be honest here man, I would question how much of a friend this guy is if he loves to let people know that their girls in his cross hairs. Like telling you he is going to invite your FB out? Da fuq, straight disrespect man. Fuck thast shit
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T Tim Barr to Good 6 minutes agoDetails Thanks for the advice man and I totally agree on many levels however it's been a real hot and heavy kind of 2 weeks as in we have spent nearly every waking moment together besides when not at work. This is not how I wanted it to be to start out but I was getting the pussy and she's cool so it just kind of ended up that way. Then stupid me I developed an emotional attachment:(. Also early on I had told my buddy that I didn't really want to hang out with her all the time as well. I really think my best solution is to just go out and find some more new pussy and then to just keep it to a once or twice a week meetup. This would be uncharted territory for me and something I am not at all used to so that makes it something out of the comfort zone. I prob really just need to man up and move on because I've now made myself look like a little bitch by expressing my concerns over her becoming friends on FB and talking to other dudes. Oh well. Live and learn |
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