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I work at a pub, and there is this topless waitress at work, (the waitresses are outsourced). And shes fucking gorgeous, we got talking and flirting for a while. We went out yesterday for coffee and froyo, typical date shit, and she came back to mine and seemed super excited about it all. She was energetic and really talkative the whole time.
We ended up laying on my bed with the tv on, so I start putting the moves on her (hand around her waist, talking softly into her ear, hand on her leg), then she says "just so you know where not doing anything tonight ok?". I say ok and back off a bit but not totally.
So she had to go, and i walk her out and she kisses me on the cheek and says she wants to see me again. So I get a text the next morning from her saying that shes sorry but she wants to keep work and social life separate and shes not comfortable seeing me at work and outside of work even though she thought she would be????
This girl looks like a fucking angel and we get along great, want to keep her around for while.
I used to get this alot. Thank yourself that she can distinguish the two. I usually ended suffering from reverse discrimination after rebuffing the efforts of women who were attracted/ jealous of me. Then I ended up quitting or losing alot of rep with the bosses becuase the women continually bitched about nonexistent issues.
As mentioned use her to get other girls, that is it. I would not even do that if you work in a professional environment, like a hospital or office.
You prob dont have it, but get rid of the neediness and continue scoping other women. It is all on this website on how to enamor women. Comes across as being more attractive. If she sees that you are mature and responsible and can keep her reputation secure, she might ignore what she said and meet up.
That was the last time i saw her but then i saw her at work for the first time since then. It wasn't awkward, we just talked and laughed and went about our night. But at the end of the shift she comes up to me and asks when I'm free. I didn't know what my roster was so i said id message her later on.
So a couple days after I message her for a meetup, we agree on Wednesday. Come Tuesday night, she says she has a spray tan she forgot about and had work that night, but she said Thursday night would work. Come Wednesday night I say what we are going to do Thursday but then pulls this 'I have so much running around to do before the long weekend sorry i cant'. So I message her yesterday (Saturday), telling her to tell me what days she is free, and so far nothing.
I cant just stop and go after other girls yet, she will be THE HOTTEST girl I have ever been with if i can land her.
AzzBrah wrote: I cant just stop and go after other girls yet, she will be THE HOTTEST girl I have ever been with if i can land her.
Yes you can. Not only are you able, but it is important that you do. You've got a huge case of oneiitis for this chick, and haven't even seen her naked yet. If you actually get to the point of having sex with her, she's going to own you like a purse dog because you're not willing to allow yourself options.
You have an attitude of scarcity, and this girl at your work is the pinnacle of beauty that you allow yourself to pursue. It's a lie you're telling yourself, and it limits you. If you were to pursue other women, you'll find there are hotter ones out there. There always are. Also, your abundance mentality will do more to land this girl at work than any amount of pursuit.
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