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I met this girl from Tinder a couple of days ago and we instantly clicked. Same day date, we get along so well and I get a boner just being close to her. She enjoyed all of my advances up till the kiss. Then I found out she's a virgin and has never even kissed a guy before! Are there any special things I need to consider while proceeding with her?
She's clearly also very much into me. We've seen each other 3 days in a row now, and today will probably be the 4th since we already jokingly talked about it yesterday. She's very anxious about physical contact, but so far I've managed to kiss her on the lips, touch her nips and feel her ass under her panties, laid close together in bed etc. Then there's another thing; I've completely lost interest to date other women. What should I do? Force myself to keep seeing them even if it feels wrong? I wanna just throw myself into this one relationship and see where it goes. But at the same time if you guys think it's good for me to keep others on the side I will force myself to do it. |
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Last edit: by Terminator.
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Imo keep fbuddies /other options for the first 6 months. Do not pronounce her ur gf till she's worthy of it. Make her earn it like Chris says
Character is forged under the iron and hammer.
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Do what you truly WANT. If you have no desire for something, dont' do it. Why do I never get below-average girls ? Because I have NO desire for it. Even if I could boost my lay count with them. But NO true desire for them, so I just don't approach them even if the give me EC, smile, make it really easy for me... Why do I never get multiple girls in short amount of time ? Because I have NO desire for it. If I fucked a girl on day D, I'm not even interested in approaching chicks till day D+10. Why do I stop talking to others chicks when I have a girl I have a connection with ? Because I have NO desire for it. Etc. If I try to force myself, I will feel bad. Only trust your own experience.
Every beginner's question has a simple answer : go date 100 girls and you will have your answer. Stop asking stupid questions ; that's what girls do. Lays : more than you |
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You left out one SUPER important detail that you mentioned elsewhere that affects the relationship dynamic: SHE'S MOVING AWAY IN 6 WEEKS!
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Normally I'd agree with Omar, keep it open for 3 to 6 months and let her prove herself. BTW that doesn't mean you have to force yourself to see other girls, you can just see her (although keep that to yourself), just as long as she knows she has to work to get you and view you as the prize. But if what Horny says is true and she's leaving in 6 weeks you can do a whirlwind romance and throw all the rules out because you know its not sustainable anyways, in many ways those are the perfect relationships, it ends on a high note and you have nice memories of each other for the rest of your lives. I just had a 2 week with one with a russian girl who was here for the summer and moved back to russia. Just prepare yourself for the inevitable sad feelings when she leaves.
Also just on a general note, there are certain schools and sites that promote anhedonia when it comes to girls. In my opinion the first 6 months to a year of finding a girl you connect with/fall in love with is the best feeling in the world and I will always pursue that feeling, so I think its awesome you found that. The key is restraint and emotional control, that means not becoming greedy and needy, always keeping the power balance and having her like you more than you like her. Now you may be just as deep into it as she is but you have to hold back about 20% for yourself, let her give 100% while you give 80%, thats where the player skillset comes in handy, and thats what separates you from other guys and lets you enjoy the best of both worlds. The reason this is crucial is because nothing destroys a girls love more than having a guy be more into her than she is into them, girls only truly love up, or love what they feel is better than them whereas if we know a girl likes us a bit more than we like them it doesn't kill our attraction because men date down. Its truly the way nature has designed things. |
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