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Hey guys, I'm interested in what is the best solution for the situation when you're normally cool around most of the girls, but crazy anxious when you bump into one you really like. I tried the AA program but had to put it off for a month or two since I started working and I need money badly at the moment but anyway, I dont think this is the approach thing. Its the actually the after approach anxiety The butterflies in your stomach and stuff lol.
I can easily chat and message girls that I'm not emotionally interested in, but as soon as I start liking some girl, thinking about her way too much etc I get anxious about stupid simple things like what to text her, am I teasing her too much(or am I being serious too much) etc. Usually I screw up things in that state of mind..
I guess that I'm not the only one here that deals with this, so how do you deal with that?
You're emotionally investing in something that isn't real, so remind yourself of that and continue talking to other women. It's natural to get nervous around women you're particularly attracted to, but it's not helpful, so distract yourself with others to get over that feeling.
yeah im starting to realize no matter who u talk to attractive or unattractive they are all the same...it may sound difficult to take in but they really are...and if this helps any you should know the hot girls are thinking the same thing about you too...like if they are saying the right thing...are they texting too much or did they say something stupid...it just comes down to whos willing to fuck up and show more interest...then the other might get turned off 1st...
and also no matter who u find attractive...there will always be another even more attractive girl than the last around the corner...dont sweat no chick...this is hard for me to learn too but im learning
This shit is a game of cat n mouse in m opinion...a game that ends in good sex n happy endings...LOL
Basically, when you have options, you don't have time to worry about if you said the right thing, or if a certain text was cool enough or not. Keep your options open, always. This will prevent you from getting ONEitis and also open up the doors to even more sex with more women, more frequently.
Just know that whomever cares the least, is always in control.
"What we do for ourselves dies with us. What we do for others remains and is immortal."
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