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Oneitis after a year - fucked other girls - no help 18 Jun 2014 13:50 #131894

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Over a year ago I met this girl that I had pretty amazing connection with, we were friends first and played a little with each other but before sex happened she figured am talking with a bunch of other girls and it pretty much ended with her rejecting me. We didn't talk or seen each other since then.

Since then I had sex with ~15 other girls, mini-relationships lasting up to a month but no feeling involved from my part.
~5 girls of those were hotter then her but it made no difference.

I still think about this girl pretty much everyday, how great it would be to have relationship with her and all other nonsense that I can't get out my head.

I've read article about oneitis on this site a while ago but no help from there too :/ wtf is wrong with me ?

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Oneitis after a year - fucked other girls - no help 18 Jun 2014 19:17 #131928

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fishyfish wrote: Over a year ago I met this girl that I had pretty amazing connection with, we were friends first and played a little with each other but before sex happened she figured am talking with a bunch of other girls and it pretty much ended with her rejecting me. We didn't talk or seen each other since then.

Since then I had sex with ~15 other girls, mini-relationships lasting up to a month but no feeling involved from my part.
~5 girls of those were hotter then her but it made no difference.

I still think about this girl pretty much everyday, how great it would be to have relationship with her and all other nonsense that I can't get out my head.

I've read article about oneitis on this site a while ago but no help from there too :/ wtf is wrong with me ?



Trust me dude...ive been where you are and trust me when i say....SHE DID YOU A FAVOR...SHE HAS THE PROBLEM...ITS NOT YOU....i been with a girl who was a 6-7 in looks for 4 years and i had waaayyy prettier girls than her...but when she broke up with me...it hurt my ego so bad and i always think what did i do wrong...when in reality she was the insecure one...trust me dude its her not you...I CANT STRESS THIS ENOUGH BRO GOOD LUCK :(
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Oneitis after a year - fucked other girls - no help 05 Jul 2014 23:39 #134991

The fact that you felt a connection with her and she rejected you is the killer man. I'm in the same boat, was with with a girl for two months. Amazing emotional connection, super attracted to her physically, and she got really insecure because of her past and bailed on me. Nothing I did wrong, in fact it was because I was such a great guy that it freaked her out. Bottom line, there's nothing you could have done to change it and you are better off that it happened sooner rather than later.

Shit two months with her and I know its gonna take me awhile to get over her. It's hard when you meet new people and you don't connect with them or they're less attractive or whatever. Bottom line, there is no such thing as the one. You will find someone else you like just as much or more. If you keep striking out with girls I would take some time to work on yourself and give yourself some perspective. The fact that it's been a year tells me you need it.

Good luck mate.
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