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My one and only goal for (the first half of) 2014 is completing the Approach Anxiety Program.
I already tried to do it (even did a log) this year but I gave up due to a combination of being sick for 1-2 weeks, living in a very small city, having to prepare for exams, going abroad and just extremely shitty weather (raining). I honestly hope that these are just excuses but after having to pause the program for about 5 times (external reasons) you just start to lose steam.
Anyway I'm even going to take the summer-term off of university in order to be able to beat approach anxiety and concentrate fully on this (basically I have 5 months - february till beginning of july). Furthermore I have a shitload of pressure to complete the program as this year is probably the only time within the next decade where I am in a big city (>1.000.000 people) with a few months of free time on my hands. If I won't complete it now I will probably never be able to complete it making my future life a million times worse in terms of foregone opportunities. Already now I experience despair when I cannot approach a girl I would be interested in (even if they give extremely clear signs that they are interested in me). Honestly I think that approach anxiety is nothing you just outgrow when you get older as nearly nobody - doesn't matter whether they are 20, 30 etc. - can approach a woman sober.
I need all the motivation I can summon so I am giving up masturbation, already completed the 30 days of discipline program, got myself some phenibut etc. and made enough time for the program - I have basically nothing else to do for almost half a year.
I may or may not defeat or dramatically lower approach anxiety due to my offshore lifestyle.
But I have one goal for 2014.
Get one lay. Just one is all I am looking for.
I promise you we will make this happen dude.
Your style has really come together, the people here on GLL have really helped you (and me) out a lot. You just have to get the esteem part handled and keep up the working out. Get a few lays in and you'll be rocking and rollin. Really looking forward to meeting you dude.
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