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Backround; I'm a senior in high school, 18 years old, living with my dad and step-mom. My dad used to be a pretty cool guy, but is extremely bitch-whipped by his new wife. I can't discuss anything with him without my step-mom butting in. I don't have a job right now, and having a hard time getting one.(Have applied to 20+ places) My parents make ~200k total a year. But if I ask to borrow money, my step-mom will yell at me and send me on a guilt-trip.(But they give my sister, who is my stepmoms actual daughter, anything she wants.) They pay for my car(which I share with my sister), and my food, and supplements, and anything else. I really hate that. I also can't have a girl in my room(what the fuck), which makes it incredibly hard to get laid. Step-mom also abuses me mentally and worsens my general anxiety.
My questions are; How can I get a job so I can be in control? And what do I do about not being able to have girls in my room situation? How can I stand up to my stepmom without getting kicked out?(Has been tossed around by her)
There is only one solution: move the fuck out. This will improve the quality of your life more than anything at this moment. All of your efforts in life now have to be focused upon this goal.
If you get skill with women it'll be pointless unless you have a place to take them. You have to move the fuck out.
Yes, you need a job but at this point in time any job that'll pay the rent will pretty much do. Waiter is a good one as it'll force you to get out there and socialize with people all day (it's your job to talk to people).
A job as a waiter will give you enough money to move into a place with roommates. Nothing fancy, but better than your current roommates who are obviously making your life hell.
Seriously, you could have a job by next week (they'll interview you at the beginning of the week - don't pester them over the weekend). In three weeks you'll have your first paycheck which'll give you enough cash to move out. Two paychecks if you're moving into someplace nicer.
With your new place and the AA drills, you'll be on your way.
Temporarily unavailable as I need to focus on other areas of my life. Only focusing on no more than two goals at once. Best of luck to you guys.
Your step mom sounds exactly like my girlfriends step mother. She's a total bitch. She got her kicked out of her dads house. So beware, that's probably her plan. She mostly likely pays for her own daughters shit without giving a fuck about you. Moving out can be difficult and supporting yourself. What about finishing school and transfer out of state college for freedom. What state are you in by the way?
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Can you do early college high school at a community college, get a job as a writer while you finish school (maybe as work study?) and then apply for college grants and scholarships so you can work and go to college in another city?
Quick fix solutions: Use your car for sex. Buy condoms on your way to school. If you have some sort of curfew or time when they expect you home, repeatedly stay after school for 'studying' or spending time with 'friends'. They will get use to it over time, and then you can have more freedom to spend the time going on dates and fucking girls.
Finding work / money: Do you have any online friends? Chances are, you do. Try to ask around and get freelance web development jobs or programming work, perhaps from Craig's List offers.
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