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So this is going to be a bit long, I'd REALLY appreciate anyone willing to read and bare with me, to give me the time of day... because I have no idea where to turn to or who else to ask. I'm going to try and break this down as quick as possible. I've been stuck in a small town in Long Island NY from 0-26 yrs old. I've never experienced college, partying, or much socializing at all outside of white trash get togethers of the same old people I've known my entire life. I feel extremely claustrophobic like a crab in a bucket, anytime I've considered leaving I've been talked out of it by my friend group- but now, I feel as though I absolutely need to break free. I only have 8 lays under my belt. I've been told I'm extremely good looking and need to model, and I've been mistaken as a catfish on dating apps quite often (which makes my life difficult, because girls accuse me of stealing pictures of a male model or something) ("poor me", I know) (I'm not trying to brag, I just feel as though I've been dealt a pretty good hand, and I've never cashed in on it- due to my own anxiety and unwillingness put myself out there/leave my home town).
I have some pretty bad anxiety due to a rough and chaotic family upbringing- bad divorce, used to fist fight with my dad everyday, blah blah blah, typical American shit. The catalyst to all this has been me getting the most gorgeous lay of my life, total 9/10 in my opinion, her saying all these things to try and get me to marry her and commit to her, but, the second I fell for her and decided to give our relationship a chance, she tried to fuck my best friend...
I feel really betrayed by my friends, and totally crushed/heartbroken. I'm utterly lost where I am. I absolutely need to become a pussy slayer. No if's and's or but's, because I know that if I don't prioritize my sex, fun, and party life while I'm still in my 20's I'll forever regret it. I know that me enjoying my life to its absolute fullest is going to be the sweetest revenge.
So, I was thinking of a few options/ideas in order to break break free out of the "bucket" I've been imprisoned in for the past 26 years.....(I'd like to mention that I live in an apartment with a long time friend of mine on Long Island. My additional family lives in Florida and California, away from me. So, I don't live with my parents/family)
My first idea/option- my grandad in Florida offered to pay for my education, wherever that may be. Wherever I choose, he would pay for it. I was considering applying to some party schools, whether it be in Florida, or maybe Arizona. (Florida might be better due to my mother and grandparents being close by) Any suggestions? On one hand I could experience college for the first time ever, get a ton of lays (granted I commit to the approach anxiety program), and a decent education under my belt. I just am apprehensive as a 26 year old possibly seeming out of place, or not fitting in. Some cons would be that I already pay rent for an apartment here in NY, and I would be leaving a already comfortable/familiar living situation.
Another Idea I was thinking of, is to get a job somehow either as a bartender or salesperson here in New York. If I did something like sell woman's shoes or fragrances at the mall I could get paid big money in commission and work on my social skills every day. Though I would not be on a college campus, and I would still be here in NY. (Not to say you can't get laid here in NY, I just am kind of sick of this friend group that isn't on the same wavelength as me- I want something more out of this life). If I go into sales for woman's shoes, or fragrances, maybe I could even transfer to another state?
Any advice or suggestions would be GREATLY appreciated... I wanna get laid!!!! Maybe Chris could even chime in on this...
I haven't done any approach anxiety course yet, but I've been working on my swag and style a lot this year. I get a lot of good compliments from chicks, but never have the balls to act on it. Here are some photos of me:
I'll answer any questions for anyone- thanks again..
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