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Apparently I met some IG semi-famous yoga chick today. No idea.
Bagged her number see if we can a date going.
Honestly, things I would've different would've been to ask her out or get to know her right there and then and not waste any fucking time. That's what I'm going to do next time. Just get to know them right there and then.
Lol at the nerves. When I was super into the GLL stuff back in 16-17, talking to girls started to feel as easy as ordering food. Now, it's been a long ass time for me, but the last string of dates that I went on was in 2020; on the first date, my heart was literally racing as I was driving to the girls house(date was at her place) and I just felt awkward and uncomfortable on the second first date with a different girl. Then on the third girl that I went out with, I finally started feeling comfortable again.
Can't wait for this pandemic shit to end, imma have to break myself in again. Luckily, it's never as hard as the very first time.
Do you hit on girls anywhere? or do you still do the "sarging" thing where you have a set time to try to hit on girls?
@1v1 I hit on girls anywhere. I don't do sarging.
I hate that shit personally.
And honestly, I just do normal guy game.
I say something either specific her I notice or just honestly anything that comes to mind. Start talking to her. Feel her out. If I like her and I like the vibe, I'll ask her out for drinks, get her number and then just go about my day.
Doing that I've had about 5 dates in the past 2 months. With one lay.
I know that doesn't sound like crazy numbers but when you consider that I just go about my
day, handle my work, gym, etc, and while going about life, meet some women...
I quite enjoy it like this.
My advice for you: Just start talking to 1 girl a day man. That's what I did for the past two months and it worked out big time.
It also takes the pressure off which is huge for dating. Dating shouldn't feel like high stakes pressure.
It should feel like fun. Meeting someone new. Having excitement.
And being in the moment.
When I was super nervous the first time with the new chick, I told her straight up while we were making out: I get nerves with someone new but I'm still really enjoying myself fooling around with you. And she was cool with that.
It probably put her at ease if she thought I didn't find her attractive or whatever.
Been doing a coffee detox and holy shit I've been sleeping ALOT.
I've been masking exhaustion with coffee and it shows.
Agreed on sarging. I always felt way more approach anxiety if I'm out on the prowl with no 'legitimate' reason to be at a venue. I also get this sense of "what the fuck am I doing!? Go home."
That's some good advice there, I'll be sure to implement it. I'm still losing weight, slower than I'd like, but I'll take it given how much junk food is available where I'm staying. My target move out date is sometime in January, ironically, to one of the cities you previously mentioned in your log, I think. I'll be in the DC area, any advice/go to places you recommend? Maybe I'll send you a PM down the line for more info, I know absolutely nothing about that area.
I just feel like any interaction I have when "sarging" just has this sense of being desperate.
Because when you think about it, it is.
The only time I've done sarging is when I did the AA program.
And not for nothing, regarding food, that's an excuse. Take charge of your situation about the junk food.
If you can't stand up for yourself in your own home, then how are you going to be able to do it in the real world?
These are people that love you. Tell them straight up "My goal is to lose weight and this is what I'm going to eat moving forward. If you don't want to cook that, that's fine. I'll cook it myself but I want you to respect my goals."
If I have your situation wrong and you're elsewhere, than that's my bad.
I've been in DC but I don't remember it that much honestly.
I only was there because I had this chick that I used to fuck that lived there. And I was in Baltimore.
So it was a little adventure to head into the capital, fuck, go out and enjoy myself.
Having a falling out with my job.
Gave my unofficial two weeks notice once my last project is submitted.
Almost had a full blown panic attack when I realize "I don't have to do this shit at all."
So I'm not.
Still talking to one girl a day. Diets been great.
Been having lots of sex with yoga chick.
Making up for some lost time.
After I quit, I'm going to take a month off for myself and figure out where I'm going to go from there.
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I didn't think the "Get Hung" guide would have girls eyeing my bulge. It did.
I didn't think that your exercise and diet advice would have girls checking me out. It did.
I DEFINITELY didn't think that your hair-loss prevention would fix my hairline. Not in a billion years. It mother fucking did. You saved me a crazy amount of time, a ton of money, unnecessary pain, and destroyed my #1 source of anxiety. DESTROYED IT.
Kratom is next!
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