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[Day 14 of 365 days of doing what I want even if I'm scared shitless to do it] [Or if it even feels like wrong. or I'm a bad person for doing so.]
Man, so today had a bit of good and bad.
The bad, there was a girl that very obviously wanted to talk to me. But I psyched myself out because we were in the gym.
That's the bad. Not my most favorite thing but here's where the good came in.
I asked my sister about the same thing we spoke about last time.
Now while she didn't get to into it...
She did tell me...
"Oh yeah, just getting leered at all the time. That's practically life for me."
You know what that says. That says, just go straight up to the girl and start talking to her. Introduce yourself. Make small talk. Then ask her. I put 100 dollars she already knows you were checking her out.
No I'm thinking about owning my own offer which leads to my own email list which leads to sending more offers to my own list and etc etc.
[Day 15 of 365 days of doing what I want even if I'm scared shitless to do it] [Or if it even feels like wrong. or I'm a bad person for doing so.]
Today was kick ass.
I want more days like this. I woke up early. Did my most important money task first thing in the morning.
Once I did that, the rest of the day felt absolutely free. I went to the gym. Kicked ass.
Almost all of my lift numbers went up.
Going to do some more work now because I'm bored and there's nothing else to do. Luckily this will be simple research so I'm just going to be browsing the web seeing what I can find for this next letter/promotion.
Cool thing, me and my sister have become more and more cool with one another.
I've just been making myself be more honest and just saying my shit...
And it's actually been great.
I'm appreciating this in a way I've never had before. We weren't talking much before covid. After though since we've been living together, we've become much much cooler.
[Day 16 of 365 days of doing what I want even if I'm scared shitless to do it] [Or if it even feels like wrong. or I'm a bad person for doing so.]
Up at 5:30. Work till 9:30. These are my best hours. No interruptions. No noise. Nada. Just focus.
9:30 to 10 AM I can review my trading ideas. This is something I'm interested in because it can do two things for me. The first being make me money especially since I work closely with traders and other stock market pros. The second, we can create one hell of a video from this which I believe would be a hell of a ton of fun and produce a ton of value.
After this, I'm eating breakfest, reading and just seeing what's the secondary tasks for me. These are things that are important to move forward but not big money tasks for me.
At this point it'll be close to 12. Here I'm free to do whatever I want. Seriously.
I can go hit the gym at this time. This alternates between going at that time or going at 2 PM.
My brain just shuts down at that time so it's probably best to go then.
Either way, after this, IF I wake up at 5:30 to stick to this schedule...
I'm seriously free to do whatever I like.
But when I don't...
I feel like I have to spend all day to accomplish my tasks. No bueno. Thankfully, my line of work allows me to do things like this which is something I always wanted. All day do what I like. If I want to work more, I can. If I want to hang out, I can.
If I want to read, I can. Go get photos taken. Etc. Etc. However, once night comes, at 9 PM I absolutely must review my watchlist so I can see what the best likely trades will be to take in the morning. That way, once 9:30 AM rolls around...
I'm focused in on my positions and know exactly what to look for. If there is an opportunity, I'll take it
But if there isn't, I stay out.
One last note.
I love my brother immensely. He said something to me yesterday that was really inspiring and maybe it will be for you too. He got out of a long seven year relationship and he had let himself go. Now though, he's been working out. Taking it seriously.
He stopped watching porn and said to me straight up: "I'm tired of spending my energy on pixels. I want the real thing."
And he has. He's already gotten down with three chicks in the past couple of weeks.
[Day 17 of 365 days of doing what I want even if I'm scared shitless to do it] [Or if it even feels like wrong. or I'm a bad person for doing so.]
I'm feeling the same way I did 17 days ago when I first had my talk with Andy.
Only work work work and nothing else. NO FUCKING GOOD.
Tomorrow I'm flying to florida for work again but...
I'm not happy with myself about this.
So when I get back wednesday or friday [still need to figure this out depending on how the shoots go]
I've got a set of things I want to take care of and do:
go out and buy clothes. Want to get some strong style.
I'm getting stronger at the gym. Time to reflect it.
Rent out an airbnb for three days in a neighborhood I want to either buy a house or rent in
Start looking at cars. Uber's are great and all but it's a bit of pain
Get photos taken for Tinder
These are the main things I'm prioritizing when I get back from Florida.
I haven't even been working as hard as before because I'm not spending money on anything. I literally feel as if I have no need for it which is retarded. I was on pace for a $50k month before some BS happened at work which fucked it.
Either way though, I'm glad to catch this and I'm looking forward to writing me getting this done.
[Day 18 of 365 days of doing what I want even if I'm scared shitless to do it] [Or if it even feels like wrong. or I'm a bad person for doing so.]
Man, so once I got back from Florida, I just felt like not doing anything.
Mainly because someone in the company got fired while I was down there. Now, I get why it happened. It's business. The guy wasn't producing so cutting him - especially since he was a copywriter - is a business decision.
But still, can't help but feel like damn, losing your job even now.
Anyways, I've had some shit go down the past couple of days. I got cursed at and cursed out some people because I didn't want to wear a mask while I was outside by myself. I talked to three different girls. One at the gym. Two in my neighborhood.
Didn't want anything. Just spoke to them to have fun. Didn't work because fuck, I just didn't want to.
I've been in a funk that lasted all week because of that shit.
Anyways, tonight, I'm writing my first ad for my future biz. I'm putting it out there too. I'm excited again. I'm looking forward to whatever this brings. Whatever happens, it's going to be one hell of an adventure.
[Day 19 of 365 days of doing what I want even if I'm scared shitless to do it] [Or if it even feels like wrong. or I'm a bad person for doing so.]
Whatever funk I was in has passed.
Maybe it's the fresh haircut I just got. Leveled up my swag/chill factor up by an exponential 10X.
Either way, this will be a fast one because I got my nephew on my lap.
Started trading alongside my copywriting.
Found a product that completely outclasses what I was thinking for a biz idea so I said fuck it. Instead of trying to break into a completely new space, et me leverage the collective experience of the trading people I work with...
And we can make something happen from that. Sure enough...
First three trading days in, went down $300.
I also had trades that could've easily made 25%, 30%, and 71% my money in the past couple of days.
For me that's a great sign because - even though I didn't stick it out - it's a huge proof point to me that I can do this.
My problem was I got out of them too early because I didn't trust my instincts.
Seems like there's a lot of emotional work when it comes to trading.
But I realized there's a huge opportunity here.
One that I already pitched it to the people I work with and the main trader/expert. She was in completely agreement with what I was seeing and it's already working out. My latest trade with this idea we're doing is already up 30% in one day!
Pretty fucking sick. Can't wait to continue my trades. Can't wait to write this new promotion.
In other news, started a new training program that's all from home and with bands.
Let me tell you, my legs have never felt like this from the gym.
I truly believe I'm going to get way better progress from this than I was hitting the gym.
Mainly because I'm sitting alot at the desk to work, write, research, etc. So, full body weight movement [and soon banded body weight] will allow me to reconnect with my body and my movement as opposed to just moving only weight in the gym.
Will try this for 12 weeks, along with great dieting, to see my results.
Ordered a blood test for testosterone.
It's always something I've been curious about and wanting to do.
Last bit of news, can't wait for Saturday to hang out with my bro, eat mad fish, oysters and clams. Go biking. Have fun. Sunday, will go do some shopping to flesh out the rest of my closet for the winter/new year/Etc. Do what I want in full effect.
[Day 20 of 365 days of doing what I want even if I'm scared shitless to do it] [Or if it even feels like wrong. or I'm a bad person for doing so.]
And new opportunities present themselves.
Been roped into going to PA to see about some new developments regarding money-making opportunities.
More and more I'm thinking the secret to becoming rich/wealthy is to acquire skills.
The more you skills you acquire at a young age
The more opportunities you see
Because you'll be able to figure out a plan on how to capitalize on a given situation. Stoked.
PS: Regarding my trading, I could've made 4 times my money in one week! I spotted the trade but didn't stick to it. If I did though, I would have extra two grand in the bank. In just five fucking days. That's insane.
I've been taking my losses but this is definitely encouraging that I'm figuring out how to do this. Stacks.
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