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Yesterday I had reached 2 weeks without ejaculating and felt a sense of accomplishment. I love the energy, confidence and productivity I had gotten from not jerking off or watching porn. It had made me hungrier to talk to girls and so I did. I met up with a girl in a local park and had a good time. It started off slow but I went for the kiss as she started talking about her sexual frustration she've had since breaking up with her bf a year ago. I touched her ass and tits as we made out. I then proceeded to bring her to my car so I could get a BJ but as I pulled out my member I saw that I had ejaculated, without even knowing.
I've had sex before but it was 1 year ago and i lasted about 10 minutes being full sober and with a condom. I've made out with girls and gotten lap dances/grinding before while clubbing without this ever happening to me.
Now my questions are: has this happen to anyone of you? What is the cause of this? Sexual energy overload? How do i go about nofap and having sex? In the future is it a good thing to release before hooking up?
I'm 19 years old and new to the forum so if my thread is in the wrong category feel free to move it, any tips about making a thread is also appreciated. English is not my native language so i apologise if my thread was unreadable for any of you. Good luck to all of you!
I'd just stay no fap and keep trying to bang girls. This has happened to you one time so far? And you had sex 1 year ago? Once you are doing that if it's a consistent problem then I'd worry more about it. But you might find a solution to it on your own if you just keep practicing and experimenting.
It's also not even a big deal unless you are trying to do advanced stuff like fuck girls in public right on the spot asap with a limited window of opportunity. If you are just trying to get laid you can easily blow this off and keep chilling with the girl and just clean it up and try and fuck her again.
It has in fact never happened to me though, so I don't know the solution.
@Schwifted, No I didnt bang her, I was planning to get a BJ and I knew I would be able to get one because i had my fingers in her pussy as we made out for a couple of minutes. But as soon that i saw the cum I pulled it back and made an excuse and somehow got away with it. We were also in the woods close to a school during night time. She later wrote to me that she wanted to link up again.
@Taylor1345, Yeah this has only happend to me once since I've only tried nofap for the first time 2 weeks ago. Latest time I had sex was once a year ago during a party trip, I've been focusing on college and work and there isn't much of a student party life in colleges in my country. I'll be focusing on women more now though since I wont be working during the quarantine.
@breakthechains, Shit once a week? I better get to work now then.
I would say try not to do it but if you slip once not the end of the world is the way to do it.
Check universal man on YouTube he has tons of vids worth of free content he has a course i didn't get it so can't comment on it. By his free shit is top notch. 2 weeks is great just try again.
My only argument against masturbating only is it gets boring fast and it can lead you back to porn so its easier i think to just cut both out at the same time.
Avoid peeking or googling names and Instagram they are great for getting closer to relapse. And every time you relapse that's your new streak to avoid binging. But as long as your doing less now than you were doing b4 your golden it can be hard to cut it all out all at once.
But your fine keep trying no matter what and eventually you'll be free of it. I think porn decreases interest in real girls and makes you thirsty. So it can definitely show you down. It's like a lead weight holding you down once your free of it it will be easier to do normal everyday things.
Good luck keep us updated.
I post mostly on KYIL now same profile name
Just PM with any questions I come on every once and awhile
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