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How to stop jerking it so much??? 03 Mar 2020 02:33 #327077

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I can't stop masturbating.I tried limiting myself to once per day, but frankly...I only kept it up for like two weeks. Yesterday, I think I went for three rounds.

The problem is, I keep yoinking, and so frankly my desire to talk to girls and beat AA gets pretty low. Also, when I finally get a girl in bed, it takes foreeeevvverr to finish. Embarrassing.

Has anyone here been successful reducing their chicken yanking long term? It's honestly getting to be a problem for me. I can make progress short term, but then just end up falling right back into the same old habits.
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-April 2020 (social circle)
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* Include one abg / party asian girl (completed?: NO)
* Include one fobby asian girl (completed?: YES)
* Include one "alterntive" girl (tats, maybe piercings, etc.) (completed?: NO)

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How to stop jerking it so much??? 03 Mar 2020 02:53 #327079

Damn. If you feel that it is a problem, try not being home as much as possible for a month. You can't masturbate if you aren't home. That'll force you to do it at most once a day, just before bed. Hell, keep yourself accountable on the forum if it helps. Usually when I log things on here, I get more anxious to not perform because I feel that I'm letting down the people that read my posts.

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How to stop jerking it so much??? 03 Mar 2020 06:10 #327086

Damn that sucks. I mean idk if this forum is the place where you can ask for advice where the answer is super obvious.

As a side note, I love your goal of wanting to smash a party ABG. I’ve tried to do that for fucking years and just HAVE NOT been able to crack that! And I mean TRY! Like goimg our to countless bars in Ktown, raves ect. It’s been impossible for me. I’m not there type. Where I have failed you will succeed.
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How to stop jerking it so much??? 03 Mar 2020 20:18 #327092

Mark Queppet.

Start here:
Everybody wants to go to heaven but nobody wants to die.
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How to stop jerking it so much??? 04 Mar 2020 07:46 #327113

Get tf out of the house.

Start no fap. Try to make it as long as possible. It will be hard as fuck but something's godda give.

I've done long term no fap and it basically cured any issues I may have had.

Main thing is get off the computer. You cannot be trusted now
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How to stop jerking it so much??? 07 Mar 2020 20:22 #327199

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Thanks all for your suggestions. I watched the video up above too. Given all of this, I've decided to quit watching porn. I'm going to continue allowing myself to jerk off for now. I hope that, with the removal of porn, my urges to jerk off will reduce naturally. Otherwise I may have to take more drastic measures in the future.
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-April 2020 (social circle)
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2020 goals
6 new girls (completed: 4 / 6)
* Include one abg / party asian girl (completed?: NO)
* Include one fobby asian girl (completed?: YES)
* Include one "alterntive" girl (tats, maybe piercings, etc.) (completed?: NO)

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How to stop jerking it so much??? 08 Mar 2020 03:53 #327212

You don't realize the damage you're doing to yourself

Semen is divine energy. It literally makes fucking babies and life. It is the force that drives you, gives you ambition, gives you life force and you splunk it away on your stomach

You jerk off because you don't understand the severity of your actions
The key to success is progressive overload:

Can't talk to a hot girl? Approach slightly uglier girls until you become comfortable

Can't screen a girl? Spit basic guy game, promising yourself to get slightlier ballsier each time?

Now you're good and can't get a threesome from random girls in one night? Keep going for double makeouts

Baby steps: One day at time. Log your progress. And do just a little better tomorrow.
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How to stop jerking it so much??? 08 Mar 2020 10:29 #327219

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My friend, i am on day 100 on nofap after years of WAR with myself.
The path to letting go is to understand its not a war.
The porn is not gripping u, its u who refuses to let go of the porn

You must give yourself some self love, break the cycle of self loathing after every fap.
and take baby steps.
If you're gonna fap, don't just rub one out real quick. it seems counter productive but actualy try to enjoy yourself, don't rush, take it slow and have a long and enjoyable fap session, imagine ur at a spa or something.
and after ur done, just calmly wash up and go about ur days, don't even think twice about it.
You'll notice the next day your urges may be weaker, cause u really let urself enjoy the experience the day before.

This approach in combination with standing meditation practice has brought me a lot of peace, and through peace i felt the urge to beat off to porn gradually diminish, and now im at 100 days and im cured for life :)

For example,
if you fap every day, thats 365 faps a year.
if you fap every 4 days, thats <100 faps a year.
THATS PROGRESS.

Porn addiction killed my sex drive and motivation to pick up real chicks.
Letting go of my porn addiction has made me interested in women again.
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How to stop jerking it so much??? 08 Mar 2020 17:43 #327223

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I've actually thought about it some more. At the moment, it's true that I don't know what sort of energy constant jerking is taking away from me. Also, I easily spend like 30-60 minutes each day doing it. Often, I'm so busy yanking it in the morning that...well, I'm at work later than I'd like.

I'm going to try and challenge myself to limit jerking just to Sundays. I'm not sure if I can do it, but I hope this will be an improvement to my life.
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-January 2020 x2 (daytime cold approach)
-April 2020 (social circle)
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2020 goals
6 new girls (completed: 4 / 6)
* Include one abg / party asian girl (completed?: NO)
* Include one fobby asian girl (completed?: YES)
* Include one "alterntive" girl (tats, maybe piercings, etc.) (completed?: NO)
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