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Life is finally good but I lost my energy, passion, and excitement for it 21 Oct 2019 02:20 #322777

I don't really know what it is guys but I remember back when I was in my late teens and early twenties, I had this excitement for life that had me amped. I would go out to bars and want to approach girls, talk to strangers, make small talk, and there was this point of excitement and passion for life in me.

Now I grew up sheltered with repressive parents who never had my best interest in mind and looking back at it, were bad people, my dad in particular is a sociopath. I remember being excited for things back then only to have him yell and destroy everything with his cynical, pessimistic, and sociopath mindset.

Over the years, I feel like life has beat me down. The social rejection, lack of success with hot girls, toxic boss at my first job that schemed to ruin my life, and never having had a cool social circle either as that thought ate away at me watching others have the social fun.

Yet now I feel like life is better. I am in a big city, have some wingmen to game with, have a cool boss, have money, and am in a city I love too. At the same time, that zest and excitement I had for life is gone. I no longer have it and am wishing to really bring it back but don't know how.

I have to take Alphaviril and a viagra pill everyday to ensure I can feel how it is like to maintain an erection for some time.

I need help....
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Life is finally good but I lost my energy, passion, and excitement for it 21 Oct 2019 03:33 #322778

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Dude I advise you create a log and stop starting so many new threads. Then they are all grouped together so experienced members can read back on your whole journey and give you better advice.

Regarding your problems it's good to learn how to grind it out and continue taking action regardless of how you feel. Giving up during low motivation/ energy periods is what kills guys progress on here and then they come back after a few months having gone back several steps.

If you do need professional help, medically or psychologically then dont hesitate on going to get it. Call up for an appointment today
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Life is finally good but I lost my energy, passion, and excitement for it 21 Oct 2019 03:41 #322779

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If you can't commit to a goal and stay disciplined, maybe success just isn't for you man.

Btw, why was GravyTrain banned? I liked that dude. He was cool.
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Life is finally good but I lost my energy, passion, and excitement for it 21 Oct 2019 04:16 #322780

@Rousseau: Because he's a fucking cunt and I hate him, so I banned him. Seriously, he has a star wars tattoo and we're all alphas on here. Get the fuck outta here with that nerdy shit.

(In all seriousness, he asked to be banned for 1 week so he wouldn't be distracted and waste his free time).
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Those will solve all your problems (if you're willing to actually put in the work).
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Life is finally good but I lost my energy, passion, and excitement for it 22 Oct 2019 01:01 #322814

Radical wrote: Dude I advise you create a log and stop starting so many new threads. Then they are all grouped together so experienced members can read back on your whole journey and give you better advice.

Regarding your problems it's good to learn how to grind it out and continue taking action regardless of how you feel. Giving up during low motivation/ energy periods is what kills guys progress on here and then they come back after a few months having gone back several steps.

If you do need professional help, medically or psychologically then dont hesitate on going to get it. Call up for an appointment today


Funny you mention that, I actually do have a log going. I post threads when I genuinely want more attention and feedback on a certain issue, like something more big picture.
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Life is finally good but I lost my energy, passion, and excitement for it 22 Oct 2019 01:41 #322818

I got too soapboxy in the OP but I wanted to say it feels like the zest I had for life is somehow gone. Like going out and the energy behind that it just doesn't seem to be there. Will check out the books you recommended Andy but I wonder what the hell is going on sometimes. Like I should be almost coming to life but somehow I am not...
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Life is finally good but I lost my energy, passion, and excitement for it 22 Oct 2019 03:55 #322823

KillTheInnerLoser wrote: @OP, buy this book immediately:
www.google.com/search?client=ms-android-...31i67j46.UPSDkBG9zVI

Buy this too:
www.google.com/search?q=the+slight+edge&...rome-mobile&ie=UTF-8

Those will solve all your problems (if you're willing to actually put in the work).


Can you recommend some books on perfectionism?
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Life is finally good but I lost my energy, passion, and excitement for it 22 Oct 2019 06:40 #322834

^ Jake, the first link above (Luxury of a Negative Thought) has a lot of chapters on perfectionism. Start with that.
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Life is finally good but I lost my energy, passion, and excitement for it 22 Oct 2019 08:07 #322837

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Radical wrote: Regarding your problems it's good to learn how to grind it out and continue taking action regardless of how you feel. Giving up during low motivation/ energy periods is what kills guys progress on here and then they come back after a few months having gone back several steps.


Yep, I can attest to this as I'm going through it right now. I don't feel like talking to girls, but I still do it every day because I'm in the habit of doing it. I don't feel like going to the gym, but I still do it because I'm in the habit of doing it. Ditto for checking GLL and eating healthy. I know this feeling will pass eventually. In the meantime I just have to grind it out.
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Life is finally good but I lost my energy, passion, and excitement for it 22 Oct 2019 14:07 #322848

hey man I get that way to. For me when I was younger I had a chip on my shoulder and something to prove. Some of it was just being young, some of it was insecurity but I was able to do some cool accomplishments that I was proud of. In terms of social life, I 100% believe that as you get older that loses significance. early 20s I was out all the time, always making friends, never wanted to miss anything. The older you get the less important going out is. You may be just changing and new things may be happening in your life.

I'm all for taking viagara but I wouldn't take it every day. Only when I'm gonna sleep with a chick.

How old are you btw?
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Life is finally good but I lost my energy, passion, and excitement for it 22 Oct 2019 15:57 #322850

@KillTheInnerLoser I have a PDF file of the slide of edge book if any of you guys need it. I read it a while back when Andy recommended it to someone else, fantastic read. So if any of you guys need it just PM me.
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Life is finally good but I lost my energy, passion, and excitement for it 22 Oct 2019 20:54 #322853

I'm gonna solve all of you guys motivation problems.

Plus I'm gonna do it in a way that will trigger even higher levels of motivation . This way, even when you have a bad day, you'll be more motivated than usual.

Check this Pic of a huge ass piece of paper hanging on my wall.



It says "every morning, work for 3 hours. No reading. Sundays are excluded"

But the magic is not in the words. It's in the circles. You'll draw many many circles. Each day you complete your goal, you'll cross one circle.

If you miss a day? You leave a circle empty. But trust me, if you're even the slightest interested in your goal, you won't miss a day.

This beauty is inspired by the great Jerry Seinfeld. He'd write a joke every day. It wasn't long before he became one of the highest paying comedians in the world.
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