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I’m really struggling with believing that women genuinely want a casual sexual relationship. In my mind, I just don’t see how women would be interested in one night stands or ongoing non-committed relationships.
I don’t really have any evidence that women want these types of relationships -- none of my male or female friends have talked about it. In all of the relationships I see and have experience with, men and women are only committed, monogamous, and longer term (2+months). I’ve had causal sex with only two women (both were unattractive and I didn't see them again), but it still feels like a very rare thing -- especially for attractive women who have options.
This is impacting my AA program since I feel as though I’m wasting women’s time with the drills. I’m wasting their time so that I can run drills, so that I can overcome my AA, so that I can achieve casual sex -- which is a selfish goal and not really possible with attractive women anyway.
Any advice or perspective you guys could give would be appreciated.
✅ Lose virginity
✅ Have sex with the same girl a second time
✅ Overcome AA
⚪ Have sex with the same girl a third time
⚪ Move to a city with better dating options by the end of 2020
⚪ Get to 140 lbs with 10% bodyfat
One of the most hottest women I fucked was a US born Indian (Christian family) that I met in May, she was 27 and her laycount was 200. Very beautiful face, but pretty slim. Her best sex she ever had was with one particular dude, she had to dump him because he wanted to have her all to himself.
My wing, his best sex was with a woman early on before he got enough experience, started getting oneitis, told her he wants to be exclusive, got dumped on a spot, never seen her again.
36 yo | USA since 27 | First sex at 31 | TRT since 34 | ADHD diag at 35
Lays: 20 | daygame: 5, online: 15 || first date lays: 18 || squirted: 11, swallowed: 10, anal: 4, mfm: 1
Approaches: 500+ | AA Program: 18/64 as of 2016
5 Approaches a Day Log
Swipe through 200 girls on tinder, reading each one's bio. See how many talk about casual sex, or "Not looking for a relationship", or "non-monogamous" or "poly" or often much more explicit than that. That'll tell you there's plenty of girls on Tinder open to it.
Here's 3 examples I pulled up for you in like 1 minute of swiping:
^The peace emoji is sexual. Same as the eggplant one.
I am familiar with the thoughts you describe. This type of thinking has held me back many times. I have tried to build some kind of a relationship thinking that's what the girl wants, even though both she and I just wanted casual sex. This has led to the girl getting turned off. Thinking too much about what the girl wants instead of what I want, stems from my fear of getting rejected, but it actually just leads to more rejection. All these types of beliefs are limiting since we make them true by our actions. That's why it's useful to choose to believe in things that are more suitable for your goals, and seek to reinforce those beliefs instead of dwelling in negative stuff.
25 y/o virgin before GLL
Some women are lifelong sluts who just like casual sex. But most women go through periods of slutitude that cum and go.
-Girl at college, even with a LTR will want to fuck all the new guys in her world.
-Anytime a woman has a breakup or divorce they often just want a good fuck instead of a new LTR
-Some women will find you fuckable but not dateable. Twice, I've had a Jewish woman pick me up at the bar and turn
into a fuckbuddy. I think they love that I look like their German oppressors. But as a Gentile, there's no way they would bring me home to their parents.
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