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When guys first jump into the self-improvement game, they have a concept in their heads of a perfect guy they want to eventually become - a guy who's confident, masculine, great with women, never weighed down by emotions, fears or insecurities. A true go-getter who does what he wants and doesn't even stop to consider what others might think of him. They call this majestic man, "an Alpha".
Truth is though, there is no such thing as an "alpha"; it's a made-up fantasy, the male equivalent of a Disney fairytale.
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This started off as a super short article - about 4 paragraphs. But then it started growing longer and longer as I started remembering all the cringeworthy and painful shit I'd done in my desperate attempts to be "alpha" over the years. Holy fuck you guys, it was like a trip down the worst memory lane ever.
Quite a few guys come into self-improvement with a hard-on for "alphas", thinking if they can just emulate an alpha in vocal tone, posture, body-language and words, they'll be perfect. If I can save even one guy from going through the bullshit I went through, I'll be a happy chappy.
- By 2020: Reach 190lbs, <18% BF (@ 155lbs est. <10% BF)
- By 2020: Lift Goals: Bench - 270lb, 1 Arm Row - 150lb x 3, Leg Press - 450lb,
- Do some looks/edge maxing
- Start and complete the Going Out to Bars program
- (Done) Quit daily kratom
"He who fights with monsters should be careful lest he thereby become a monster. And if thou gaze long into an abyss, the abyss will also gaze into thee." - Friedrich Nietzsche
I'm writing several articles about psychedelics - I plan for it to be a big part of my site.
Yep I've written about it a tonne in my log, I'd have to dig through to find each page. I've done LSD about 50 times over the last 4 years (usually tiny doses, with a few big doses here and there) and been a sitter for about 15 other people who did it.
Just some shit off the top of my head:
- After finishing the AA Program I procrastinated and went 7 MONTHS without actually talking to a single girl. I feel deeper into depression, so I took LSD one day, spent 16 hours writing about every single thing that was holding me back and then decided "Ok. Tomorrow I go talk to my first ever girl on the street." I stayed up all night then early the next morning I went out and did my first approach, and statted doing 1 approach a day shortly after.
-Been a sitter for tonnes of girls when they take it - especially my current girlfriend (she's done it about 5 times with me). First time she just blurted out some childhood abuse she'd never told a single soul before. Ended up going to counselling, telling all her friends and family about it, now she's ok with it.
Shit I gotta stop writing... I could write for another 2 hours about all the ways LSD has helped my mental health and self-improvement. I'll write it down in a series of articles.
Edit: and don't even get me started on what sex is like on LSD. That will be 10 articles in itself.
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I didn't think that your exercise and diet advice would have girls checking me out. It did.
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Kratom is next!
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