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Hope you all are enjoying the holidays. I have a friend who I often have discussions about the "red pill/ player lifestyle"/ GLL topics with, and he's been having conflicting thoughts recently. He has been telling me that the more he fucks girls, the more he internalizes and thinks about what other people think/do (e.g., he walks down the street and thinks internally about whether the guys he's seeing fuck more or less than him). Another example of this is after he started going to the gym - once he got bigger he says he feels a lot more self conscious / cares how big other people are. For me, my journey down this path has made me care a lot less about what other people think, so it's hard for me to relate.
Anyone have any advice for my buddy, and how I can help him stop giving so much of a fuck?
Its funny I feel the exact same way as your friend.
Before I started going to the gym I NEVER thought a second about how my body looked. I knew I was skinny etc but I didnt give a fuck until I startet hitting the gym and gaining a little muscle. The better I look the more insecure I get as well, its fucking weird but its true. The same with girls, if I dont feel like I look 100% my best I wont go on dates and meet up with girls, I know its bullshit but it is 100% how I feel.
I know looks are important but the emphasis on looks on this forum has honestly messed me up in some ways lol
Start playing basketball on a real team to make friends
For me when thoughts like this start to redeem an unecessarily large part of my brain capacity it is a sign that the obsession is starting to take hold. That isn't a good thing when it goes overboard. Doing something and being obsessed about something are two different things, and when I let myself become obsessed, I always start to feel shit on the inside. Trying to force myself not to think about those things is difficult, but taking a break helps to clear out my mind so I can get a more healthy perspective again.
25 y/o virgin before GLL
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