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Ok, that's great
That's very very good.
Are you sure about that ? We can't take your word for it. You might happen to very wrong about this. You think everyone around you is getting a lot of attention while all women of the planet hate you. It might feel real to you, just like it felt to me for a while, but I can tell you right now, I am almost 99% sure it's all in your head and you can fix that.
So, there must be something you are missing. Bad quality pics ? Bad location ? Poor attitude ? We need to look at your photos and see. I am sure a lot can be done.
I don't think I am "good looking" in the eyes of most women, that doesn't stop me from getting laid.
Just wanted to say photo quality means a lot. Camera angle, lighting. @killtheinnerloser is right. You need hundreds of photos to find a few good ones and you need a good camera I have hundreds of pictures and you look different in all of them. Some bad, some good. Here are examples [pics removed] And I have many more such examples. I look different in each photo I take and I have hundreds. Camera, lighting, haircut, etc. All those things matter. I was fucking myself over for a lot of time cause I had a bad camera and didn't think there are ways to get better pics. What are your Tinder photos like ? I am sure we can improve them. Also, why not try cold approach and also why not work on solving the mental stuff ? Don't give up. You have insane potential, you just need to realize it, one step at a time. You can make it bro.
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Well with all due respect, I don't think anyone who ends up gravitating to forums like this is a 'regular' guy by any stretch of the imagination. Judging from my experience having met people from pua forums (and the cancerous forums) in real life, it's an odd collection of social misfits in many cases. You don't strike me as such at all, but I measure my success against my male acquaintances IRL, not online. It's my lived experience that most 'above average' looking guys who I have met in real life can have sex with attractive women easily from apps. I cannot, thus I must be below average, because there is no great distinction in how I speak to girls online when compared to my friends, in fact I think I'm probably better at it, frankly. To me, the evidence exists that I am not attractive, so to deny the evidence seems illogical. Mission: Fuck a legit hot girl by 2019
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I was the same as you, read the same site as you do now. I felt the same way. Do we really need to tell you our backstories ? Tell you how fucked we were ? Because trust me we where. I was suicidal depressed and also considered jaw surgery. I was a weirdo my whole life, still am a bit. @killtheinnerloser also was a late virgin I think or at the very least had a very bad sex life. There is a guy here called Terminator, who felt like you, yet he is a bodybuilder. Just cause we seem well adjusted now, doesn't mean we where a few years ago, I definitely wasn't .
First, it may seem like they get good results. Maybe they also get lots of rejections, or maybe their dates go nowhere. You can't know how much a guy gets laid until you are in his body, otherwise it could be just an impression you got that may not be correct.
Based on your photos I see no evidence. Tinder results can mean a lot of things, like bad photos, bad location, etc. We can't know for sure until you post your Tinder pics and tell us more so we can dig deeper and see what could be wrong. I had similar experiences. Here's the thing. I can tell you as an impartial observer you look good, that's a fact. Just because you are having bad results NOW doesn't mean you will have them in the future. You are not failing because you are ugly. You are not succeeding despite being quite attractive. There must be something you are not doing. Bad pics, bad location, something. We don't know yet. But I guarantee there must be some stuff holding you back right now that we can fix. I am willing to bet on that.
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maybe those guys have better photos. What photos do you use for online ? if it's the same ones you posted you're gonna have a hard time with the hot girls. Not because you're ugly but because there boring ( I'm working on it myself)
We don't want to be regular guys here, we are creeps who want to get laid as much as possible. How do you know these above average guys are getting laid with hot women easily from online. If they do they have to put in the numbers like everyone else (just less then average) and Unless you've seen them guys lie all the time about how many girls they fuck. Approach 100 hot girls in real life. Post back with results.
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For my location: London - probably one of the best cities in the world to use Tinder / Manchester sometimes, again an excellent place, although the competition is hard.
2 years ago, I photoshopped my pics to make my face a bit longer, more angular and proportioned, and added a gym selfie. You'd all have likely said that those pics were awful, but my match rate, match quality and their total responsiveness suddenly skyrocketed. If my face isn't the issue, then explain that drastic change please. That's pretty firm evidence. With a more masculine face I went from not being able to match girls above a 6 to matching girls almost entirely above a 6... Naturally, once I added them on snapchat and sent a pic of my actual looks, 10-15 of them blocked me instantly or didn't respond. Here are my current pics regardless: imgur.com/a/h2A1VDX Every girl I met said my pics were fine so... but then again they weren't the kinds of girls I want anyway. Mission: Fuck a legit hot girl by 2019
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First, if you think it's your looks, how do you explain that guys like me and killtheinnerloser are getting laid ? We look worse than you and still get laid.
Now to your photos Your photos are bad. First photo 1) It's a selfie. No selfies 2) Your pictures cuts out your head, show your full head. 3) Get better shirt. You look like a boring programmer in that one 4) Choose better background Second photo Cool location but bad lighting and a bad photo in general, scrap it Third photo Low quality generic shot of you on a bicycle. Scrap it Fourth photo Only somewhat ok one, but could be way better. So we already have something to work with. For now, I would chose the last one as your main. Let's try to help you get better pics. I suggest you make a thread where you will post pics as you make them. We will guide and help you make good ones.
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Damn, man, all these people giving you long ass responses and you just say "nah, it's my face".
You need to be more appreciative of the advice you get here. Nowhere else will you get the quality of advice you get here, not even if you pay for it. Like, in the time it took them to write their responses, killtheinnerloser could have spent "quality time" with one of his fuckbuddies, or taken better pictures, or scratch his balls, coolguy could've done the same. These two dudes spent several minutes (maybe even a couple hours) trying to help YOU, and you are unwilling to listen. It's not your face, it's your mindset, you need to change your mindset. This is the best forum to improve if you're truly willing to put in the work, but you won't get sympathy unless you do put in the work. Also, if you're willing to spend the cost of a small house in a developing world country on surgery, then just get a damn dslr and get it over with. Stop taking pics with your potato phone and expecting super hot girls (who actually spend more time and effort into taking good pics than you do) to want to fuck you. |
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You both look better than me in the eyes of most women, that's how. The proof is in the pudding. You don't have the same flaws I do. Mission: Fuck a legit hot girl by 2019
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If a DSLR camera is required how come I managed to get tons ol matches just by photoshopping my pics (which were poor quality???) Mission: Fuck a legit hot girl by 2019
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Exactly. I think the issue is he goes to that website and they filled his head with crap. He was telling us how he is ugly and gets bad results on Tinder for 5 years cause he has a bad face (despite clearly that not being an issue). Then once we look at his Tinder pics, it turns out after 5 years the best pics he came out with is a bad selfie in a boring shirt in an empty room and a generic pic of him on a bike somewhere uninteresting. Just on that front alone we know there is a lot we can improve. My suggestion is this Make a thread where you will regularly upload new pics you want to use for Tinder, we will critique them and help you pick better ones. If you are considering spending 40k on surgery, spending 1k or 2k on a good camera should be way more reasonable. Save some money, get a good camera and start taking a lot of pics. And post on a dedicated thread on this forum if you want us to help you choose better pics. I would start with a "Help me get good photos for Tinder thread" and if you feel like it a thread where you do the AA program or cold approaches. That is how we can help you and make you get results. Let's do it.
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How do you explain that we look as bad we do on photos, at least on most ? Are you seriously telling me I look better than you ? [pics removed] Would you really want to have my face ? Do you think you would do better than you do now just because of that ? I legitimately consider you more attractive than me based on the photos you showed me. I wouldn't mind switching faces with you theoretically speaking (I am very happy with my face, just saying theoretically). Let's make a mental experiment, if you switched bodies with me or killtheinnerloser do you really think you would do better than you do now ? I am convinced that if I was to switch bodies with you I would be just as successful as I am now. As I say, I consider both of us, me and killtheinnerloser less attractive than you. "The proof is in the pudding" is the pictures we posted. Ours are clearly worse than yours. Your face looks better man, I don't care what Tinder results with bad pics say.
I don't know, but if you are serious about it, you should follow us blindly for a while, if you truly want us to help you. Just trust us blindly. If you follow our advice and put in the effort then you can see if what we advocate works. Mentally masturbating about why some photoshopped pics worked and the ones you use now don't is not of interest. Our interest is to give you the blueprint we use and believe you can use successfully too. If you are not interested in us helping you fine. But if you are, you better listen to our suggestions and start implementing them
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@coolguy you're definitely not an ugly dude, you just look like a dude who spends too many hours in front of a computer screen, you should be careful about that man.
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