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This is sort of a follow up to
. July 2014 feels like a million years ago. A lot has happened.
Ultimately, I did gravitate away from the group of friends that wasn't enabling me, save for one whom I keep in touch with—I value his friendship but he's still just as hopeless with women. The others turned 30 and became old men. They're either slaving away at their salary jobs or married with children. I'm on a different path.
I became less active around here because I was spinning my wheels. I made a ton of personal progress but fear was holding me back from achieving success with women, and deep down I was ok with it, because I wasn't doing anything to change it. Recently I went through something that forced me to be vulnerable in a way that I've been fighting for years. It was rough. I experienced emotional distress. It affected my work and my appetite. But it really needed to happen, and it made me realize that the false sense of comfort that came from giving into my fears isn't good enough anymore. My happiness is more important. I'm tired of being lonely. I need a consistent stream of feminine energy in my life. So here I am, I'm back, and I've been getting off on being vulnerable lately.
Back to the friends thing. I can count the number of close, likeminded friends that I have on one hand; with fingers to spare. Beyond that I don't really have a network of friends to to do cool shit with. Again, I strongly neglected relationship building in my 20s because of the shit I was dealing with and my own insecurities. But now I want to go out way more often and do things. I want to live the life that used to feel out of reach while I'm still young. I want to reap all the social circle benefits that Chris talks about.
I need people to call upon, and people who are gonna hit me up to go to bars, clubs, and parties weekly, rent a cottage, drive/fly to another city for the weekend, and just generally go out to events, and things happening in my city, and be social, and mack biddies with. It's as much about living my best life as it is about women. And yes, I'm working on moving to the heart of the city.
I'm in a weird position because I don't have that history of being the cool, socially active guy. That plus I hit the reset button on life in my early 20s, so my personal development hasn't been linear like with most people. So I wanted to mark my return to this community but also I'm seeking advice on how to build the social network that's going to carry me on this wave that I'm on. I can't be the first person to run into a hurdle like this.
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