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If you live in the same room as your parents then I can only assume, and I mean no offense, that you are poor, very much so probably (correct me if I'm wrong).
With that in mind, get a fucking job ASAP.
Zyzz7 wrote: Yes I am. It's hard to game and work a minimum wage slave job at the sametime
Post a picture of yourself, let us know where about you live (so we can tell you if you're below or above average), then people here will tell you if you can start cold approaching with decent odds in your favor, if that's the case, losing your v shouldn't take you longer than a month by cold approach, it sounds like you don't really have any responsabilities so it should be achievable, after that, focus solely on making decent money.
Ladies and gentlemen, this is why you don’t “multitask”. When you try to do 5 things at once, you get 0 things done and get stuck in the same situation that made you want to do 5 things at the same time 12 years later.
You all have seen me flop around for 3 years for the same fucking reason. “I wanna beat AA”, “no wait I wanna go on lots of dates from online”, “no wait I wanna build a social life”, “no wait I wanna make money”, “no wait I wanna get a girlfriend”, “no wait I wanna beat AA”, “no wait I wanna go on lots of dates from online”, etc.
If you can’t put what you want in an order of priority and go all in one at a time until you succeed, you lack the most basic form of discipline and you’ll never do anything more than daydream. You might as well not have any goals. I’m gonna name this right now: Goal ADD. It’s just laziness because whatever hard work you’re doing you just keep trying to get yourself out of it by daydreaming about the thing you’re “gonna work on one day”. Stop lying to yourself and face the fact you are too lazy to accomplish anything. “I just don’t want to realize later there was a better way?” MENTAL GYMNASTICS!!
Rant over. Sometimes I like these troll threads because it gives me an opportunity to self-reflect.
Zyzz7 wrote: Where would you start if you were 31?
Never went to college ✔
Never kissed a girl ✔
Sleep in the same room as parents ✔
The only positive is I'm not depressed
wow man how did you fuck up your life so badly. Well you're a wizard atm, any hopes of returning to 'normal' are gone for you. Going to the gym and lifting isn't going to save you.
If it where me I would train and fight MMA. Like a proper amatuer fights after 12 months of intensive training. I would move to a rich state and try get a job as a bouncer / security. Live in a van if you have to. So the ideal situation is 5 - 7 days working late nights as a security contractor / bouncer. During the day you train 4-6 hours of MMA. The gym is where you shower, shit, piss. You sleep in a van. Do that for 2 years straight, experience about 15 years of life in 24 months so you can catch up a bit.
You're 31 and have nothing to live for, no career opportunity and your life is probably not even fun. At this point you can rot and die in your parents cot or you can try and live a little.
goals: don't fucking know not gonna commit to anything until I actually properly, live or die commit to it.
6'4", 30 yo, 7 lays (holy shit that's low)
Achieved so far:
- Overcame crippling, diagnosed social & general anxiety.
- Improved my looks (3/10 to 9/10 according to photofeeler).
- 40+ matches a week on bumble/tinder/hinge
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I didn't think the "Get Hung" guide would have girls eyeing my bulge. It did.
I didn't think that your exercise and diet advice would have girls checking me out. It did.
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Kratom is next!
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