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To start I'm 22,, i've lived one crazy fucked life for the past few years, I became an alcoholic over the past year, binge drank for the last 8 months, did a fucking hell of alot of coke. I decided that life wasn't for me and decided to travel, I thought i wouldn't drink but I ended up on the piss for another 4 months. Happy that I didn't dabble in too many drugs while travelling, but I effectively blew 25k since travelling on being completely fucked up all the time.. Recently I've joined a fighting gym to get away from the alcohol, It's worked, last night was my first time drunk in 3 weeks. I've put 100% focus into training
This morning I feel alot of regret after drinking last night, not because i got drunk. Because this morning I realized that I have nothing anymore, I lost the love of my life, I don't have any education beyond 12th grade, I've been successful in a lucrative business at home, but I let it go and gave it all to friend because I didn't want anything to do with it anymore. I understand hustle and grind, not stopping until shit is done. I don't have any debt
I'm at a point in my life where i keep asking myself what the fucking point is, maintaining friendships has become a difficult thing. I can't relate to people, I find myself always googling how I can better myself more than I actually spend trying to better myself in my free time
I want more out of life, more than being an idiot drunk, more than whats back at home, that shit scares me.
I go home for 3 weeks in august I'm scared as fuck to go home.
I try to look at the bright side, what I've created for myself, how I got to where I got today, I deserve this shit. Exquisite is an excellent word for my life style, haha I live by the words fuck it, when I get an idea I do it...
my head is all over the place one minute I feel like a champion the next minute I feel worthless, I'm mentally "lost" I suppose, mentally strong and very weak all at the same time
If someone could give me a tad bit of direction or advice I don't know who the hell I'm suppose to talk to, I keep this bottled up all the time
Taking it one step at a time
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16 Jul 2017 08:37 #287033
Well, you are stuck in a place different than most of us.
3 step plan :
- get to alcoholics anonymous or whatever, I think Terminator does that. Kill the addictions
- get to a doctor that cures ED and check your hormone levels and stuff
- either finish school / start a new bussiness / approach girls / hit gym . Choose one area of self improvement that matters most to you know and work on it
That's all I can say.
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