TOPIC: Emotional mess, where is this lifestyle leading? 20 € paypal for who helps!

Haha sounds pretty solid dude. I don't see any problem with the way things are going. I know its easy to over analyze and worry about your situation with a person when you're not together.

You sound socially smart enough to know when she's down for it. Personally I would make solid effort to get her back to my place and seal the deal. I mean you already like each other enough to make plans to travel together I think you are both headed in the same direction. Definitely never wait around for a girl to make any moves.. And double definitely not a girl under 30 (women under 30 are constantly re-deciding what they want based on their emotional state etc. etc. as a general rule you can not expect integrity from any woman). Exception being some MILFs but at the end of the day you're the man and you have to make the moves.

But don't stress out about it. Things are going well and you can decide to fuck her when you want to. Just take her back to your place and make the moves. The only thing I would suggest because you are so young - I cannot predict how this particular encounter is going to play out for you but the most important thing I ever learned from GLL was the fact that I can get good pussy with solid effort. And that's important for any man to know. That way no girl can ever have you by the balls because you know what you're worth. Remember as soon as you get predictable and controlled you're completely boring to a girl.

And not to be pessimistic but always be aware of the worst possible outcome in any situation and create a plan to overcome it if that situation arises. That way you're not crying like a bitch because some random fish from the sea decided she's no longer into you

Anyways thats all the advice I have but good luck

Awesome pretty much agree on everything, Idk if I said that she's been in my place (on dorm...) and while I was pulling down her pants to start licking her pussy(I've never done it but she just pushed me down on my bed and "smashed" her hips on my head) she notices a box with "sweet love" written on it and she fucking opens it(btw I had condoms under it hahahahha)... needless to say it was a gift for my birthday from an ex-girlfriend with 100 reasons why she loved me and a bracelet.

Lovely girl got super mad and she's like "I knew you were too good looking to not have another girl" and shit like that, I actually spent a good 5 mins re-assuring her that I would never bs her..

Well she left a little mad but 2 days later I went to her apartment(being spoiled she has an apartment alone, it costs a lot haha) I was going at a party and I was late, she knew and told me don't be a douche to your friends and be a "good guy" tonight, I touched her pussy from the outside and we had some great make outs, kinda got my hand off her in a very nice way and I'm like "okk I'm leaving, wasn't I a good guy ? ", this is my worst mistake, she was telling me good bye but her body language and expression where craving for me to remain..

Well this was the actual last time we were completely alone together and in a situation to fuck, since then she had important projects and flaked on me twice at like 12 PM, we would've fucked but sure but she was super tired(her degree is the most demanding our Uni has to offer, I switched away from it last year to have a decent social life, zero regrets when I look at her..).

This is my last post about her until I get to see her, I'm over-thinking and it feels weird, thank god I fucked brazilian girl or I would be even more confused about this whole moment.

Well what just happened was funny..

I was ignoring her today because she was texting weirdly, tonight I go to dinner at my friends place(who lives at 50 meters from lovelygirl) and while going back to the dorm I see her holding this guy elbow(yknow how) and they going towards her house we pass and she just says hi ti me, no need to say my world fucking crashed into the ground..


I go back to dorm and start punching the bag in the gym until I can punch no more, in my mind the bag represents the asshole, I swear if she was my gf I would've beaten him till every fucking bone in his body was cracked and he's "bigger" than me.

Sooo.. Fast forwards 10 mins I get a call from a friend(who was with me when I met her) who says he was going back alone so no chances of her fucking him...

After this and my reactions I think it's for tge best if I don't talk to her anymore(even if I'm still infatuated )

If you want to advice how to proceed not to fuck up and still have a chance please respond, never been so desperate , why do things need to be so complicated?

Fuck this chick dude. Shes a cunt. What kind of sociopathic person leads someone on emotionally and then walks past them with another person and gives them some distant response.

Cut her off completely and go for other girls. The only reason its ever ok to focus on one girl is if shes a GOOD PERSON and you guys IMPROVE each other. This cunt is an attention whore who will only eat at your self confidence and emotions if you keep her around. I fucking hate people like this and I cut them off instantly. Any other choice would be fatal

What if she hits me up?
Should I try and bang her or call it a day ?

I feel you bro, same thing sort of happened to me with a fuckbuddy recently. Although I knew she was dating other guys it was pretty hard for a while when I saw her with one.

She's not a cunt, she's a girl being a girl. They need attention man, it's how they are.. This isn't personal. I imagine it's actually a sort of gilded hell for them as they have to be sure of being popular and maintaining status. It is what it is.

For the record you're prolly 'better' than the guy. It doesn't matter. My (now ex) fuckbuddy ended up bf'ing the guy she was dating and now he takes her round, waits on her hand and foot etc. I used to boss her around, tie her up and fuck her super hard. You get my drift?

It ain't all about attractiveness and 'alphaness'.

If she hits you up do what you want.. So what DO you want from her?

Don't want to comment on who's better because we lookalike, he has some gut tho...

Apart from that I'm gonna get the lay, idgaf about honer and pride, I'm getting it in and never talking to her again!

Chill out a second here dude... your freaking out and acting like a needy, clingy bitch.

Play it cool, don't blow this girls phone up... Hang out and try to fuck.

Good luck. And remember:

stop acting like a needy clingy bitch.

I'm like that in my mind, had no contact bar a few hellos since tuesday..

I've let her on "seen" on whatsapp, so in reality I'm not being clingy at all.

Tell us how many other girls you're seeing/are talking to & hanging with/plan to meet for the first time over the next week or two.

One on monday(I met her yesterday) probably getting laid(y'know that feel).

I went cold turkey on one when I was super infatued and then my "fuckbuddy" who I'm seeing tomorrow night.

It's really not because I don't have options, we just clicked sooo well, I should man up and tell her we need to talk.

Today was awkward, we were sitting close and the bar for 30 mins and didn't even exchange eye contact...

ehh similar story here man, was just casual with some girls, clicked really well with one and as you probably experienced SHE was the one that pushed to get closer, hang out a lot and make plans etc, I'm enjoying it and then suddenly bam she goes cold, same stuff, find out she's been hanging out with other dudes, gives no explanation etc etc feels bad man