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"because I don't have time(i'm 21)" all your struggles start from here. you are in hurry for result and you are following some belief that at some age you should be in a certain way. That's bullshit. you need an incredible amount of patience to get what you want now. And process is one goal at time, give up of the idea that you can control how much does it take, get the shit done without judgement or belief you put in the process. the only thing that matter is never give up, the rest is only your mental masturbation. the pratical thing you can do is affirmation, write it down what is your goal and why you value. do it often to keep in track and some reminder to be focus on the goal.
Pick smaller goals. Notice the goals in my sig, getting a solid number from a girl is the first goal that has the potential to actually be semi difficult.
If Uni is your priority, I've read from a productivity blog where a guy charted everything he did for a week, that a particularly productive week was actually made productive from a few house of hard work (80:20 rule). A beginning goal for that could be getting a few solid hours of study time in.
By doing that you're going to flesh out what kind of studier your are (mornings or nights, repeated breaks or none) etc that'll set you up for future goals.
I also agree with an accountability partner. I'm actually looking into a therapist for that reason (I have a call with a fuckable potential therapist tomorrow)
I've been keeping track of your AA program. You move too fast, skipping things you deem unimportant, but in actuality are very important. For example, your online dating profile, have you done it? It's important to get girls, any girls, during the AA program for motivation.
So the solution is to stick with it, whatever "it" is: the AA program, exercise, money, uni, whatever. Being impatient causes you to skip, which causes you to not get the result, which causes you to fall further behind (by your own standards).
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I didn't think the "Get Hung" guide would have girls eyeing my bulge. It did.
I didn't think that your exercise and diet advice would have girls checking me out. It did.
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Kratom is next!
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