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Been thinking a lot about this recently after a few things have opened my eyes.
What is your plan in life?, do you have stages you would like to go through? or are you just planning on sort of "Winging it".
Ive been thinking and the stages i want to do/currently doing are :
Education > Travel/Girls > Money > Relationship > Owning / building my house (With decent passive income so i can enjoy it)
Obviously things will always transfer (Im going to travel while in education etc) but i think right now thats my life goals.Expecting each stage to be around 2-4 years each, maybe more/less depending on how things go but I'm not looking at it as a timeframe, more as a section i have to feel happy with, I know when I've got a good education (Pass uni) i know when i would have traveled to all the places i want too, i will know when I've got enough money etc.
My goal is to make sure 30 year old me is set for a comfortable and rewarding life financially and emotionally. By the time I'm 30 I'd like to have beaten AA, fucked 30 chicks, been lifting for 3-5 years, and started my own business (regardless if it's successful).
To become a person of value, someone who's time is worth something. Defeat my fears and insecurities. Eliminate my ego.
I want a story, I want to make stories that make people go "wow really". As my South African army friend has told me:
"Live an interesting life so you can live it twice. Once when you're young, and again when you're old".
There is no worse feeling than the pain of regret.
About not caring about this, I agree that would be better but for me (Being in education) im desperate to go on to the next stage (Travel/girls) but i know the education part will help me so much (A degree is worth so much more in other countries and will help me travel loads)
Sandshark wrote: When I finish sowing my wild oats, I plan on going back to what I was doing before I started doing all this.
Be super-Catholic, find a super hot / feminine / "good girl" Catholic wife who's like 22, have 8+ kids, build my businesses really big and make millions. Keep my looks good with fitness, TRT, plastic surgery, wearing suits, etc.
My 19-year-old ex back in October fit the bill perfectly, it just didn't work out so I went back to the player thing. She was great and I was disappointed things didn't work out. I'd love to marry somebody like her when all this is done.
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So I guess the stages would be:
Academic/Princeton (done) --> Start Business / Theology Grad School (done) --> Player (current) --> Find Wife / Get Back on Track Financially --> Get Rich and Raise a Bunch of Kids
What are potential paths to riches for you. What are you interested in and at what level? Lifestyle businesses etc?
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