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Why are you so angry? Why are you yelling like that? You shouldn’t do that…
I shouldn’t do that?
Do you realize, my friend, that whenever you feel anger, rage, aggression, may it be inside or outside, there are actually TONS of benefits for your self-growth? Let me share with you what I discovered from a very violent call I had with my roommate, a couple days ago. The truth is that my girlfriend and him are far from being friends. They almost can’t stand each other, but I know the three of us are growing from that experience.
Nice job Anthony, you finally stood up in front of him. After years of friendships, you always felt minimized and less successful than your friend. You put his financial success and material wealth on a pedestal. Then you put him in a pit, before appreciating him in your heart.
I realized how that small scale verbal violence was a great practice to the real business world. It is nothing new that I aspire to do business, but I’ve always had doubt on my skin toughness. Truth is that I’m not a particularly violent, dominant or aggressive male. I can even say that I have a strong feminine, caring, listening and connecting to the deeper ocean of people’s emotions side. No matter the stereotypical gender of any traits! We have them all and I can find masculine and feminine energy in the reality of anybody. Stop fooling yourself. You can’t always be that alpha male. Who really cares about being alpha anyway? I know the answer. Insecure men! Insecure men needing that security, by calling themselves alpha and trying to be alpha, by watching other alphas being alphas. Such a beta thing to do! Shout out to Mike Cernovich for that fresh perspective about alpha/beta.
What am I afraid of? Why did I fear everybody’s reaction in my life when volcanic rage builds up? There is nothing to fear. In fact, now I think I’m more afraid of keeping frustration inside than telling the truth directly to the person concerned. Observe how that closed one is pushing your buttons on the perfect spot to make you grow. You won’t grow from being overly protected by your mama. I certainly didn’t. Shout out to my dad for being my top 1 button crusher, unleashing the Mr Hyde inside me every time he tried!
When you leave your old house for a new start, don’t be fooled by the idea that you won’t manifest a new perceived challenging authority. When one disappears, you have no time to celebrate. Another (higher level on the shit-sandwich Masterchef cooking skills) will show up and test you even more. Embrace the discomfort, embrace the RELIEF you actually feel when you scream and punch walls. It creates, I don’t know what kind of buzz in my head, when I rage my lunges out. But I see the perfect equilibrium between anger and enjoyment in my case.
When I closed my eyes and balanced out the negative emotions, I literally felt like a lion roaring inside me and I had massive chills of masculine assertiveness exuding from every pore of my skin. I also realized how that anxiety of confronting him created a new confidence I never had. I’ve been a people pleaser all my life, seriously. I lied compulsively to protect my little ass from the OMG SO EVIL opinion of other, lol. All based on fear of rejection, on addiction to support and kind words.
How can you ever aspire to be a leader if you can’t face the music and deal with people’s insults, complaints and screams? The more haters you have, the more you’re listened to. The more you have impact. And then one day those haters start loving you, and you evolve to higher grade master haters who perfectly play their cosmic characters in your microscopic life viewed from the space.
Would you have developed any kind of independence financially if you’ve never been at the border of financial chaos? How do you feel with a couple dollars in your bank account acting as scarce oxygen particles to keep you alive? How can you develop an ambition and strong desire to achieve timeless visions if you always have someone to take care of your financial responsibilities? I’m now more dedicated than ever to work my ass off and save up for a place where I don’t need roommates no more. Nothing wrong with it, but the path is clear that this is my last year not being able to afford my own place by myself.
Don’t waste your time regretting friendships that start to fade away. Trying to swim against the flow will just exhaust you. Be grateful for the part they played and be grateful for the fresh born friendships that start to manifest in your life. We, as Good Looking Losers, experience an exponential growth with months and years of continuous overall personal enhancement hunger. It’s the Universe Way to tell us that we can handle greater responsibilities and greater rewards.
No need to back up my friend, because if you are still alive, then it means that whatever you live now is something you can learn from and grow from.
"How can you ever aspire to be a leader if you can’t face the music and deal with people’s insults, complaints and screams? The more haters you have, the more you’re listened to. The more you have impact. And then one day those haters start loving you, and you evolve to higher grade master haters who perfectly play their cosmic characters in your microscopic life viewed from the space."
That's a good point right there.
By facing conflict head-on, you grow into a stronger man. Shying away from it will only make the problem continue or even grow worse.
Not trying to start anything, but whats with all these guys with single digit post counts posting walls of text advice? Do you guys come here to learn or preach? There are alot of impressionable guys on this forum that really don't need to hear your white noise. Especially when they're just starting out.
But yes, it is okay to get angry. Sometimes.
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NilDesperare wrote: Not trying to start anything, but whats with all these guys with single digit post counts posting walls of text advice? Do you guys come here to learn or preach? There are alot of impressionable guys on this forum that really don't need to hear your white noise. Especially when they're just starting out.
But yes, it is okay to get angry. Sometimes.
The fact that you don't post a lot in a forum makes me think better of the advice they give.
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