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Just turned 22. Feel old as shit. Have 2 more years of uni ( if I go full time) to get a bullshit ass degree. Wait tables and still live at home. I don't want to go to fucking school. Those years can be spent else where. I want to fucking train mma hopefully compete or do physique competitions, live in another city, travel and other shit with my youth. Just feeling a little lost at the moment what do you loser think? I feel like there isn't enough time to do all that I don't want to look back on life and be like shit I should've done this or that.
Become a promoter/VIP host!
I promise ittl change the way you view social aspects of life.
THe day I became a nightclub VIP Host my world expanded by quite a lot! Money, Connections, and great music. If you are looking for any of these aspects and you can hustle hard, I would say give it a try.
Mate you're only 22, relax. It's great that you're feeling rushed, that'll motivate action, but go easy on yourself. Why can't you do MMA and tag hot girls while in Uni? Sounds like a good time to me.
The only reason you should quit school is if you can go and make real money elsewhere. I'm only finishing Uni now and I'm 27 but I feel great about it. I've competed in BJJ on the side, built some solid skills with girls and my fuck-buddies are still rarely over 22. I want to travel and move around too but that's gonna be a lot easier now when I can go make real money instead of working long hours in a bar at night.
Honestly, deep down inside you "KNOW" what you want truly want to be doing... however, it probably isn't what your parents would support (rather than be safe follow the masses while getting a degree) and it is somewhat "scary" yet "exciting" to just THINK about stepping outside the boundaries of "NORMAL" or "not follow the masses/what society says is RIGHT"...
I think you need to figure out exactly "how to achieve" that known "goal/lifestyle" only you know RIGHT now inside your own head... Then you have face the music, "keep doing what your currently doing/just floating through life as it seems you feel now from your post..." OR simply shoot for the fucking stars man... Your young, your going to fail MANY times in life whichever path you choose but close your eyes for a minute while "imagining what your doing now" along with where it will take you most likely.... and then do the same for "whatever dream goal/life" you have inside your heart...FORGET right now the hard part, money, ANYTHING other than just close your eyes and imagine in 20 years where you will be, how you will feel, and think if that were honestly YOU RIGHT NOW...which one would make you the most happy? There is no right answer for ANYONE to tell you... The only right answer is the one you truly believe in, if you enjoy/wish to continue school as that makes you happy then do it man OR vice versa....
In the meantime, start a side hustle or cash business not doing anything crazy illegal... If your in college there are tons of ways to make CASH money from odd shit. If you would rather work on a website or start a small brick & mortar business such as something low cost with low overhead as painting fences or simply power washing gum off storefronts concrete, again your young just start...
If you have a "hustle" that you just KNOW you are PASSIONATE about yet need some capital to get started properly while you learn along the way... Get a job in the "Sale's Industry" as typically YOUR INCOME is based upon YOUR RESULTS which means if you BUST YOUR ASS NON STOP.... no clocking in then checking social media until you are off the clock but TRULY learn how to sell.... You will make MAD MAD MAD money while learning how to communicate with others while pyschologically in your head you treat each sales opportunity as something like a "chess battle" mentally where you close "certain doors" aka eliminate ways by allowing a customer verbally stopping or allowing them to mentally use any excuse other than to BUY from you RIGHT THERE RIGHT THEN...Which that skill set has many traits you will learn that will make you EXCEL for the REST of your life in making money/business, but also...
Being a true "TOP Sale's man", (not some cheesy ass clingy guy you automatically picture in your head)... But a true clean cut, no bullshit, confident, and dominate male will lead you to MASSIVE amounts of pussy... As learning how to read people while mentally preparing for 3 different potential things they could say/do and already having a PLAN of how to still EXECUTE to achieve your results will make you MAD $$$$ and get you MAD $$$$.
Whew... Young with an abundance of time! GO GET IT my man!
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(I wish I had the BALLS I have NOW at your age.... As this quote is EXTREMELY TRUE!)
"I put the bubbles in the tub so I can take a bubble bath!"
I'm 24 and wait tables and live at home and am tagging plenty of new bitches and am gonna be debt free in a month. I'm going to Europe next summer and my car is paid off and I'm saving up money to start investing shortly. It all depends on what you make of your situation.
I was in the food service industry since 16 and decided to be professional about it, got various wine certifications and now instead of working at a chain restaurant, I work at a high end fine dining spot making great money and working 30 hours a week. I have enough free time to hit on bitches, go to the gym, go out with my mates, or go back to school if I want to.
Think about what you want to do and go and get it since you have so much free time dude.
You said "I want to train mma"....so uhh why don't you start?
There are online universities that offer legit degrees (e.g. University of Phoenix).
You can travel/move and still pursue your education should you choose to do so.
Or, cut down on your credit hours and not get burned for a full tuition. This may vary depending on the university, but I'm imagining that online degrees are a bit more flexible with tuition than a bricks and mortar school.
Temporarily unavailable as I need to focus on other areas of my life. Only focusing on no more than two goals at once. Best of luck to you guys.
On second thought after I saw this again... dude no stupid talk but GO just GO somewhere/some new places... Learn what other places whether its a different state in the US or a completely different country... Take a year to just fucking EXPERIENCE life which I think ultimately will help you really understand or "find out" who you truly are inside.. in a good way.
Maybe I sound like a nomad gypsy but honestly I bet you will never regret the experiences you endure along a journey like this good or bad... Then come back home or stay somewhere you LOVE... and then pursue your dreams in a Zen like state... lol stay off drugs or out of jail and don't now up any bitches... 3 MUST rules not to be broken or at least the last...
"I put the bubbles in the tub so I can take a bubble bath!"
Hey brother, I've been exactly their but what i realized was this
Keep moving, ALWAYS just always push towards your goals. Real things you want and just push for it. Push yourself hard even if you don't know what to do exactly just go with your hunches that'l confirm stuff with yourself. You'll cross shit off the list and put a check next to the other than go with it again. It aint ever gonna be perfect dude, but it doesnt have to be because once you start making making , taking action you forget all the little shit your worried about because your too busy to bother. Now your making moves, now you got direction.
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