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Binge watch TV shows one after the other.
Get caught up in the lives of celebrities, reality stars, and their idols.
Idolize people who are ultimately just human.
Watch porn because they believe they could never get a girl that hot.
Wait for someone else to tell them what they should do. Take orders.
Try to make everyone like them and get upset when someone doesn't.
Believe that things happen for a reason, therefore surrendering any responsibility for their circumstances.
Believe that they should accept themselves without ever putting any effort into improving.
1.- Can't conceive that someone doesn't drink if it's not because of a health problem.
2.- Believe that "everything happens for a reason".
3.- Believe stupid shit like "accepting yourself". They ignore the amazing, raw, godlike, animalistic motivation that an inferiority complex can give to you.
4.- Eat TOO many carbs.
5.- Believe that the more money you spend on something, the better you'll get at it. Example: They don't know how to play a single chord but they buy a professional guitar because they think it will make them better players automatically. Or... they spend all their money on some fancy gym (those ones with faggot music all day) even though they never lift a shit because they think that will make them look better automatically. (Idiots) Average guys may want to learn about cars, but since they're too lazy to put the effort, they will buy stupid accesories that do not even fit in their cars to look like if they knew a lot about mechanics.
6.- Don't chase anything. Ever. The mark of the average guy is that the only chase he does in his life is the chase for being comfortable. A winner goes to the beach and hits on girls (knowing he might get rejected), gets his ass into the ocean to see how far he can go, socializes with strangers, etc. The average guy goes to the beach and lies all day in a chair drinking beer doing nothing but looking like shit.
"El momento es ahora, no a la hora de la hora, porque luego no le atora"
Sometimes I absolutely despise normal/average people and sometimes I just feel sorry for them and then sometimes I notice that I still have some normal/average traits that I'm trying to rid myself of
But here is my list of normal/average person traits that suck:
1. They suppress their natural instincts... such as being curious/interested/hitting on hot girls
2. They don't lift heavy things or exercise their body at all
3. Instead of following a biologically appropriate and healthy diet they eat refined carbs, sugar, bad fats, packaged foods, etc and then they rely on modern medicine to "cure" their sick bodies
4. They are afraid of sunlight
5. They don't understand that getting laid is a numbers game
6. They think that we are stuck up when in reality we just have genuine confidence because we have tasted hot pussy and for some of us lots of it. They think that we walk with pride because we are ass holes but in reality we just know we look good because our bodies are not a tub of lard
7. They root against us when it comes to women
8. They call us creeps if a girl is not interested and sometimes even if she is
9. Normal girls will often call guys ugly/creeps if they are not interested in them despite the fact there there are thousands of other girls that are interested in them. My ex called these two tall guys ugly who hit on her and then later I saw those same guys dancing with some other girls. They were definitely not ugly guys.
10. They follow social conventions to a tea
11. They pay attention to largely unimportant stuff such as news, social media and dancing with the stars
12. they faithfully work 8 hours a day in the hopes of one day becoming a boss and working 12 hours a day
13. They are completely out of touch with their natural roots and completely fail to see it
14. They adhere too closely to social conventions and anything else natural such as burping, farting, eating fast, laying down in public is gross or taboo... I know a hot girl who burps in front of people... Such a cool chick, we need more hot girls like that
15. They watch too many movies and believe that you should play it cool, be smooth and wait for the girl to give you signals and then continue to impress her/keep her chasing you by saying more smooth shit. Everybody else who is not super cool/smooth is destined to not get laid just like in the movies. No wonder the average guy doesn't get laid at all
One would think it was inappropriate for average people to regurgitate "facts" about average people, yet this thread is filled with garbage kind-of-arrogant "facts" about so-called "average" people made by (in most cases) average people.
This feels more like a circle jerk if anything.
What's the point with this thread, other than making a bunch of nerds feel like they're above the herd?
It's this whole "average guys vs us" mentality I just don't get.
I know plenty of so-called average guys, who have several traits that don't fit the descriptions in this thread. I have several friends who get laid a lot who don't make a big deal out of it. I have several friends who make serious cash and enjoy their jobs, but they don't throw it in your face. I have a substantial amount of friends who go to the gym, but it doesn't go to their heads. I could go on, but you get the point.
On the other hand I see plenty of examples of GLL members in this thread who don't get laid more than average, who don't make more than average money, who don't have a better than average body, etc.
Without any numbers to back this up, I would even estimate that there are just as many circle jerkers on here as "in real life" among "average" people.
So what separates you from the herd? Only arrogance.
Why do I even care? Well because I used to have the same arrogant mentality, and let me tell you this one fact. Going about, over-confident and acting like you're better than everyone else is not going to get you any success with people. Not people who are worth spending time with anyway. You might get laid here and there, but people are generally going to try to avoid you. Sam is a prime example of an extreme version of this behavior. I have been there too, I'm no saint.
It's good to acknowledge and be happy about your results, but don't let it get to your head. It is entirely possible to get results in life without putting other people down. In fact, it gets easier if you support the people around you instead of pointing your fingers. We all have flaws, average or not. Why would you focus on what other people can do better anyway? It's just a distraction from your own goals.
I once read this quote, which I really dig: "Humility does not mean you think less of yourself. It means you think of yourself less."
I would argue this circle jerk constitutes as pure ego-feeding and nothing more. Otherwise I just don't see the point. None of this info is helping anyone towards their goals.
Anyway, that's all I have to say on that matter. I have to leave this thread before it overflows with virtual semen.
The irony is, bragging about how much better you are than people because you don't watch TV, or use a penis pump, is an incredibly average thing do it.
You know who the truly above average people are? Gandhi, Martin Luther King, Steve Jobs, Jesus, and so on. Do you think any of these guys would have spent time on a forum discussing how much more 'above average' they were to compared other people? Do you think they obsessed about penis size, or how much girls they could fuck? Nah, they were too busy changing the world.
I'm not saying you shouldn't work out, or miss opportunities. What I'm saying is you shouldn't presume to be better than anyone. just because they aren't doing what you're doing.
I know a lot of the guys on this forum came from a shit place (like me), and it's great that they are trying to get as far away from that place as possible, but that doesn't mean that everyone else is in that shit place. I know a lot of so called 'average' people that have amazing qualities, that people on this forum seem happy to overlook.
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The "Average guy" cant get love/sex without securing a girlfriend. This makes him needy as fuck and bends him so that he better fits the "boyfriend material" role. This is the reality for 80% of guys out there... sad really.... Very grateful to no longer be part of that.
^ Once this "Average guy" gets a girlfriend... he is susceptible to be held "hostage" for sex. Basically he is broken as a house pet. The women in his life know he can't get sex elsewhere and exploit it.
Its really a bleak scary place... filled with porn, masturbation, dirty tissues, and a submissive existence as a house pet...
FS-Ronin, where do you find those statistics? Most guys with girlfriends I know are not in such unhealthy relationships. Sure, you have to make room for differences between you and your partner, but that's a two way street. I think the vast majority are in healthier relationships than you say. Could it be you just had bad luck with women before you became a player? If so, there's no reason to put down guys who go into relationships just because you didn't go that route. Sure there are losers out there who could benefit from the red pill, but it's nowhere near 80% of guys. Now that we're already just pulling out numbers from our asses I would rather think it's along the lines of 10%.
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