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Average people never search for the path that leads from where they are now to the things in life they really want, so they never see it, and thus assume it simply doesn't exist.
Above average or exceptional people always keep searching for that path because they know there is a way. Because they don't give up they find that path, follow it, and achieve success.
1. Tells himself he is good with girls
2. cannot take risks
3.2 They need others to motivate them to weightlift/study/etc.
3.3 takes the easy route
4. Would rather pay a fortune for instant results than read tips from hardcore sites for free
4.1 Fake it until you make it.
6. Believes talent is more than 50% innate.
7. Claims he/she isn't racist but only dates within their race.
7.1 Non-white people will date white people, but not other non-white races
9. Believes women by nature are not sexual and would never pressure their boyfriends for sex.
11. Compares websites like D&P, GLL, WSP, to The Secret, Life insurance, etc because a friend got burned
12. Thinks it is abnormal for men to touch women.
12.1 thinks getting is through the right words, making sure she is comfortable, and lying about their status
12.2 Speaking of lying they would rather learn game than weight lift, lose/gain weight, branch out, make more money, etc
13. Would rather send out 100 resumes/"networking" than find ways to boost resumes with projects. leadership positions, overachiving at their current employment/applying something from major into said employment or befriend someone in the field to vouch for them,
13.1 Networking is attending events and exchanging business cards
13.2 Calls "cold calling" invasive of the company
3 and 2 are bolded because all the others listed from myself and others are derived from laziness, a lack of ambition, and an inability to take risks.
Normal people speculate about money and success rather Than attempt to actively achieve it. (Think it has been already said).
Normal people can be vindictive and backbite those who are successful and ambitious rather than emulating and learning from the said person.
Normal people are not disciplined and do not usually have self control.
Normal people lack the ability to focus and concentrate despite hardships.
They are not willing to sacrifice the short term for the long term.
They dont realize that learning and knowledge is a never ending process.
Normal people are not willing to really step out of their comfort zone.
Normal people are not even willing to take educated, reasonable risks.
They probably lack passion, insight and they dont know how to play to their strengths.
Now this is a big lesson/realization for me that has changed my approach to life:
Normal people use the words Hope and Luck too often!
I don't believe in any of the two!
Hope is a concept that makes you passive! It externalizes the power you have over your fate/life!
ex: People say:Hope is the last to die. Meaning you have given up on yourself to change your life or whatever is happening to you. Instead of fighting til' the end! PASSIVE ATTITUDE
Luck is used to name everything happening to you that you cannot clearly define. Normal people use this word too often. They don't put the effort to have an introspective attitude. They don't understand that everything happening in their life, they attracted it.
These are two very powerful words that shape a person's mindset and their attitude towards their life!
One keeps them from understanding what's happening in their life, and the other keeps them from taking action, thus keeping them "normal"!
Tbh though I don't think it's really as simple as classing people as 'average' or 'above average' based on the things they do unless we're talking about something specific.
Some people value kindness, compassion, empathy, etc more than how much money you make, or the amount of girls you can fuck.
What I view as 'above average' may not be 'above average' to someone else. People probably think i'm average because I watch Game of Thrones and believe in God.
So I guess the one universal thing that separates the 'average' from the above 'average', would be pursuing the things you genuinely want in life, and dedicating your life to becoming the kind of person you want to be, which could be anything. Al
Average people lack the testicular fortitude to GET SHIT DONE. They will never amount to shit because they ain't shit. They talk shit because they ain't about shit. They hate us 'cuz they ain't us. They just ain't hungry enough.
Every day they're offered success on a plate, but they never take it. Why? Well, mediocrity only takes 30 seconds to warm up in the microwave and it's so full of delicious chemicals that they just can't refuse. Success would simply take too much time for them to cook in the oven, even though it would taste so much better without any of the bullshit that mediocrity comes with.
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