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Chris a little bit off topic but do you still have the igf1?
Don't pm me asking questions if you are not going to message me back with a thank you after a lengthy answer or if you are going to debate with my experiences. If you can't say please and thank you, ask your mother to teach you some manners.
They don't lead others. Might be able to manage someone... but they are not a leader.
They don't make others better; as they don't even better themselves.
They think their burdens are the heaviest.
They base the majority of their self-esteem/confidence off of extrinsic values (looks) and their "level" relative to others around them, instead of intrinsic values.
They blame others, all of the time; for everything.. never taking responsibility. Even for their own actions.
They never purposely make themselves vulnerable.
Mental Masturbation Masters.
Clarification: came up with a few of these based off of my largely average (thus far) life. Not pretending to be above all of these things.
Most guys == pussy bitches, afraid to do anything for themselves, afraid to be labeled as a "creep" basically just do what our matriarchal society spews at them, living a sad pathetic life where they fuck a below average girl who eventually probably cheats on them.
They fuck a fraction of the girls I/we do, and non of them are even close to as hot, the average man never knows what it is like to fuck hot pussy, and it shows.
1) Trying to not be a douche. Never calls a girl's mom a player, because that's what douches do
2) Judges others. Bitches about how someone is douchey, annoying, a creep.
3) Waiting for the right girl to 'just come' instead of approaching
4) Fantasizes and thinks about a relationship with a girl before even fucking her
5) Trying to not be a creep. Never escalates, never makes sexual jokes, never touches early.
6) Overanalyzes every rejection and thinks for weeks about that stupid thing he said when he was nervous and thinking what he could have said better (true story)
7) Trying to be smooth. The guy thinks he is in a movie, and tries to play so it would look good in his mind. To him every interaction must be an exchange of cheeky replicas as if he's in a Bond movie. He has a thousand one liners and pre-packaged openers. He always wants everything to look perfect. If a girl so much as stumbles or roll's her eyes his ego is crushed for weeks and he will think of ways to deliver the lines more smoothly instead of escalating like a caveman
8 ) He believes in building attraction through words rather than killer instinct. Tries to "build comfort". Thinks SMS game is a real thing. Will text a girl for months and claim "he's working on it"
9 ) He cares what other people think and loses sleep over being called a jerk or a creep. Tries to justify himself whenever that happens, only looks worse
10 ) All his friends are losers. The only thing common they have is that they grew in the same area or went to the same school. Their favorite pastime is to sit around a bench and drink beer or go to a bar
11 ) Complains about girlfriend / boss
12) Hates everyone more successful, even his friends
13) Talks behind the back, tries to sabotage you. Tells girls not to date you, cause you'r a player
14) Cockblocks you
15) Is hypersensitive, is offended by jokes and small stuff
16) Thinks approaching girls in the street and talking / touching them is 'rape'
17) Tries to prove to girls how much of a 'gentleman' he is by smearing you and other playes
Makes "funny" videos about guys approaching girls in the street and calls them creeps to get the approval of sheeple
18) He watches TV
19) He never takes things to the extreme. He never obsesses over a goal. He never eats or lifts big or never works hard
20) He has no goals. He just drifts through life
21) He doesn't understand girls. Thinks the best strategy to get laid is to relate to their feelings, be nice, listen to them and be submissive
22) Is a momma's boy
23) He hates players and white knights for women and wants to find his "special one", ends up being captain save-a-hoe for an ex-stripper with drug problems and 3 kids.
24) Marries a dependopotamus between deployments (for guys in the army)
25) He goes to college because that's what everyone does. Always for some stupid liberal arts degree
26) Thinks woman will want to jump on his dick once he gets his lawyer/doctor/engineer degree
27) Thinks looks don't matter, it's all on the inside
28) Is afraid to stand out. Never peacocks, and never follows fashion because that's "followers" do
29) Cares about what is politically correct
30) Never confronts his penis insecurity and never does PE, because it's all about the '"motion of the ocean"
31) Spends too much money on beer and drugs and too much time on video games, TV shows, sports, news, etc.
32) Takes credit to buy things he can't afford like houses and cars
33) Trusts media
34) Looks for advice on places like "Men's Health", "Ask Men", Reddit, etc. rather than hardcore resources
35) Gives advice despite having no idea what he's talking about
36) Gives generic advice like "be yourself"
37) Never looks back on his life and recognizes his mistakes.
39) Has no accountability or power of will to complete his goal.
40) Doesn't strive to be better
41) Wait's for somene's permission or a sign from above before he starts doing something
42) Chases "hapiness" rather than specific goals"
43) Waits for things to just happen.
Thinks the economy will turn around or politician 'x' will save his life, a girlfriend and job will come by themselves
44) Blames and hates others(women, minorities, politicians) rather than himself
45) Has no mentors. Never listens to authorities cause he "is just 15 and even he knows better".
And of course the 3 biggest ones :
1) Never goes after his dreams because he is lazy, "the economy is bad", he's too old, he's so unlucky, he doesn't have the genetics, has no time, life's so hard, has better things to do, etc.
2) Tries to make failure look like success.
"True alphas are providers not jerks who obsess over their dick and chase drunk girls in bar", "True alphas are not guys who act like frat boys. Real man are not afraid to cry and show their inner side", "I don't get girls because I am too good for them. Women are stupid and cannot appreciate a mature man. They all chase drunk clowns, I'm better than that" , "That's toxic masculinity and immaturity" , "I am too moral to "tricks girls into sex" ", "I don't approach girls in the street because that's creepy, not because I am a huge pussy". "Who cares about money, muscles, dick and sex. There are more important things in life", etc.
3) Never does PE, takes steroids, eats more than 2 eggs, does botox because his dick will fall off / he'll get roid rage / his colesterol will go up / his face will turn into frankenstein
Sorry for the wall of text, but it's quite comprehensive.
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