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I'm the type of person who is a loner who is lonely but i don't say that out of insecurity. I say it of of confidence and to all the people who feel the same. Others eventually if you go down that road, and you cut down your friends who are holding you back. you might lose the company that kept you busy, and entertained, so yes you cut down these friends your might feel lonely down the road.
But my point is I have taken loneliness and my situation in the past and always have held it in a negative light. I have put myself down but now i see loneliness as an opportunity not a distraction to build the life I want. People that hang around others who hold them back those people are surrounded around distractions. Meanwhile Loneliness, and like I said anybody in my situation who has felt down like I have don't' limit yourself take it and think of it as an opportunity to build to prepare for success. Something positive because your not distracted like others. Anyway those are my thoughts that's my perspective its not right or wrong its just perspective.
The good thing about being men is that we don't take a lack of contact or communication personally. You have a goal. Your friends are detrimental to it. You have to spend less time with them. Doesn't mean you are no longer friends, it simply means that right now you have to allocate the time you were spending with them to working on yourself. They'll understand. Remember, it's lonely at the top but it's jam packed and miserable at the bottom.
^ small towns suck, especially when you don't have money to move out
"This is an obsession. Talent does not exist, we are all equals as human beings. You could be anyone if you put in the time. You will reach the top, and that's that. I am not talented, I am obsessed." ~Conor McGregor
GET THE FUCK IN THERE AND DO THE DRILLS
I want to thank everyone, including GLL Chris himself, for contributing to this thread. I haven't checked it in a while and it was cool to see that people continue to relate to this. I didn't burn any bridges, but I've hardly spent any time with those guys and for different reasons they hardly see each other anymore. This was an important lesson though. I don't have as many active friends now, and I'm ok with that. I'm way more invested in myself and willing to impose my own standards/boundaries.
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