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I'm talking especially on things that are related to my personal development.
Every time I try to get disciplined I'll give up in a week to my old me.
Every time I start going to the gym I'll eventually give up in less than a month.
Every time I try to act alpha and maintain frame with my gf, after a week(max 2) I get back to beta behaviour.
Fuck, I just can't keep doing things long enough....when I start I'm excited, but eventually I give up after motivation is gone. I tried to maintain motivation all the time but I can't, eventually dies.
Just on financial stuff I'm doing okeish because I like what I do and I'm a bit forced to keep things going because others rely on me. But for my personal development, I fail all the time. I feel like a fucking beta loser. There are some fucked up guys, low IQ, no skills in anything whatsoever, but they keep going to the gym and get big. How the heck I can't and I'm 10x times better on any aspect of so many others.
How do you guys keep things going, how do you stop giving up? It's not like I don't try....I try, but it doesn't last...than after a while I try again and shit happens. I don't know how the fuck to keep this motivation going, to develop myself every day, to go the gym, to eat healthy, to read, etc....fuck, i just get back to my computer and watching movies, programming for my business for time to time, checking facebook, meeting/fucking gf than sleep.
I had the same problem as you from age 15 I decided I wanted to get in shape and I procrastinated on workout routines until I was around 19-20 5 YEARS LATER.
I spend 1 year determined to lose and build muscle, and I go from 330 to 235 from looking like biggie smalls to people treating me like they just saw a unicorn. I look more like a rob evans (in clothes still need to lose about 10lbs)
Seriously I don't even believe my looks 2 days ago 2 girls driving past me threw the car in reverse to come back and tell me her friend likes me, a hazel eye light skinned girl and i was so comfortable I changed the topic and didn't get the digits. Hence why i'm a goodlookingloser.
I wont answer your question I will just tell you exactly what I did and you will know how to proceed.
I said fuck a workout program I found out my lazy ass could do 4 sets of 8 pushups so I said FUCK progress i'm going to do this 3x a week MON, WEN, FRI.
Yes a 300+lb young buck with a 3 day split on fucking 8 pushups! Taking the weekend off. I would also lift a 20 fucking lb dumbbell on the same days.
I did that for about 4-6 weeks with no change in reps or weight no progress. Heres where the magic happened after about 5 weeks I felt a strange bulge in my bicep? and a weird firmness on my chest. I was putting in a pathetic effort and I WAS BUILDING FUCKING MUSCLE!!!!
I became hungry for MOAR! I didn't have to convince myself I wanted to workout anymore my brain wouldn't let me give it up I was certain I could do this
1 year later -100lbs fat later, 200+lbs on the bench later, 6 day split later, squats later, BB rows later, weighted crunches later. Lots of weighting chicken breast later.
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You need to change your environment so that you are FORCED to adapt, you can't rely on your current beta brain to maintain the change for you. This will be extreme advice but I suggest that you consider deleting your facebook, getting rid of access to movies/time wasters, breaking up with your gf, etc. That will give your brain a shock and give you a lot of extra time and motivation to build yourself back up. Right now you are staying a fucking little beta bitch because you CAN, your environment is forgiving and allowing you to, you won't become something better unless your body is forced to change. Put yourself in crisis mode and then do cold showers + no fap + meditation for a month and if you can do that then they will have become habits by then and you will have a brain with will power capable of perseverance. If you want to succeed, you must be willing to sacrifice the person that you are right now, for the person that you want to become tomorrow.
"If you're a fucking shredded, sick cunt, you can get away with anything. That's what the revolution is. None of these fuckin' sad cunts. We're all gonna fuckin' make it brah, that's it."-Zyzz
"I teach you the Overman. Man is something to be overcome. What have you done to overcome him?"-Nietzsche
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