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makes it sound pretty simple, which it can be, I'm not denying that.
I would say that people experience different types of loneliness
and for different reasons though, and "just be around people"
will not always fix it..
Probably works for a lot of people though
It's a bit like depression and anxiety in that way, it's fucking complex
and one fix won't work for everyone...
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Was slightly disappointed with vic's post, I thought he would go more in depth about how to deal with it. We all know the solution is to be around people more, especially ones you connect with. I have a hunch though that he's just satisfied with his Thai/Cambodian girlfriend in Asia, and possibly random conversations now and then with other ex-pats over there.
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I think the problem with being alone is that everyone's idea of loneliness is different. You'll have people who are genuinely alone, people who have family, or people who have a social life, but still cry that they're lonely.
You have to cultivate your own standard for loneliness and how to deal with it. Maybe because this is GLL, people feel more lonely than others, due to insecurity or seeking validation. I think you just need to learn to love yourself. Make your own feedback most important to you. Easier said than done though, of course.
TJGoodlooking talked about saying "I love myself" to himself every morning, or something similar.
I've been dealing with depression for at least 5 years now, and whatever i have tried has only had limited success, as sometimes it would work and others it wouldn't.
I can say though, that the period of time when i made an effort to say certain affirmations to myself EVERY DAY, I felt entire worlds better than i usually did. And it was just shit like "I'm awesome", nothing special. I was even going through a terrible breakup, and though i felt lonely, I also felt like I was going to be okay. I didn't really care that i was/felt alone
Every goddamn day. Get in there.
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I have lived in three different countries, and I was happy in all three of them, yet always felt lonely and still do. Note: I am not complaining, I don't even see my loneliness as a problem anymore. I am surrounded by cool people that love me and care about me, I live in a beautiful place and all my limbs are working haha, and I have sex quite often. I'm a lucky mother fucker. And yet still feel lonely. Not sad, that's different I guess.
There was a time when loneliness made me sad, until one day I realized we are truly alone, because in the end the only person who truly cares about you is well, yourself. I stopped going "zomg im so lonely gah" and just started enjoying life more.
I am often described as very social and also as a loner, that's weird I think, but that's what people close to me have told me. Also, people that "can't stand being by themselves" are drawn to me like bees to honey.
How to get rid of this ugly feeling?
You can't (personal experience) you just stop giving a fuck after you realize that you feel lonely due to your unique point of view. If you are reading this forum is because you are red pill aware and live in a blue pill world. Take it for what it's worth, enjoy life bros.
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