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Hello. I just GLL after reading various PUA forums for a couple of months. I’m a 41 year old living in the US. I found out my wife was having multiple affairs using Tinder a little more than six months ago. I’ve been very depressed about it but i’ve decided to be something positive about it a month ago.
Unfortunately, I’ve never been good with women. I didn’t have sex or a girlfriend until I was 30. My wife is the only women i’ve ever dated or had sex with.
I’m trying to workout more to improve my appearance. I have a pretty good body compared to the average man my age. I’m maybe a 7/10 in the body but unfortunately my face is 3-4/10. In the past, i’ve had women tell me. I’m pretty shy as well but i’m trying to get more comfortable around women.
I’ve tried online dating for the past month but get very few replies. I went to a club for the first time in a long time last night and approached two girls. I didn’t have a great opener (just asked with they were drinking). They ended have very short conversations that didn’t go anywhere.
I can post some pictures to get some suggestions on what to do. I probably need a hair transplant, braces, and a chin implant to improve move looks past a 5. I’m not sure if I should try daygame. I get very intimidated in bars and clubs so maybe i’d seem more comfortable to women during the day.
Just the fact that you think you need a chin implant means you probably have psychological issues that are holding you back WAY more than your looks. I see guys on the internet constantly that want chin implants, and without exception it’s completely unnecessary.
Definitely post photos and we can assess how much work you have to do in the looks department. More importantly let’s see what your online dating profile looks like. I will bet $100 right now with whoever will take my offer that your pics are absolutely terrible. I’m guessing it’s a lot of selfies.
The fact that you managed to lose your virginity at 30 is awesome. Most guys totally give up by that point, props to you. I think it goes without saying that you should get yourself into a therapists office at least one day a week starting YESTERDAY. losing virginity that late in life is never caused by a problem with looks. 200% of the time it’s caused by low self esteem or some other character deficiency. Recognize that the thoughts you have about yourself are probably delusional, and don’t beat yourself up about it.
I really hope you follow through with this. I’ll make you a promise right now that if you listen to the advice of guys on here, and make this your NUMBER ONE priority for 2 years, you’ll have all the pussy you need.
Stick with it, don’t give up, and post some photos in the private section of the forum so we can tell you where to start. The only way you can lose is if you stop trying. Good luck!
Thanks for everything you guys. It's time for me to move on to bigger things!
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