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Okay so I'm 31 not 35 plus. But 2 years ago when I hit on girls 18 to 20 years, they never really asked for my age. But within 2 years I don't know if I really aged appearance wise, or if it is my vibe, now girls around 18 to 20 start asking for my age. I know a lot has happened within 2 years. More stress, pressure, this and that. I'm trying to figure out if it is my vibe or my looks. And I know I do feel different than I did two years ago (internally).
Plus, I know it shouldn't matter if I feel like a creeper because scotty creeps the shit outta chicks but plow through. Like my buddy says it shouldn't matter, it only matters if I give a shit about it.
But anyways my question is, had any of you guys went through similar situation and how did you deal with it??
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I don't think there's anything wrong with telling teens you're 31- that's not that old in person. (maybe online be tougher). If the girl likes you and she's willing to date older that's not a huge age dif. I also don't think it's wrong to say you're 24. They'll usually believe you if you sell it by not selling it. Whatever you're comfortable with man.
I've gone through situations in the reverse, where I look too YOUNG to be eligible. I think just plow through, and/or lie. But maybe a plausible lie they can't really tell the difference about. Like if they're 18, just say you're an "adult age" like 24 or 25. If they're adult, like 23, just say you're 27, 29 etc.
"527. I'm a vampire. Come closer, I just.... want to smell.... your neck"
"Old enough to be your FATHER! and WHAT are you doing out so late young lady? Come here I think you may need a spanking."
"(true age). I don't think maturity is a number though. We'll have to see if you're mature enough for me."
There will always be some girls who can't stand the thought of dating an older guy. There will also always be girls who ONLY want to date older guys. In between there will be girls who are open to the idea but can be easily swayed one way or another by how you come off and peer pressure from their friends.
IMHO, I think if women are asking about your age it's because you're putting out a "I just want to fuck you" vibe, so they're looking/testing to see if you're comfortable with it(i.e. avoiding responsibility), because they don't feel a comfortable vibe from you, and may be looking for their excuse for not fucking you as a result.
I think, and I've noticed this in myself, if you're truly centered and in your masculine, women of any age will be trying to fuck you instead of the other way around.
If you're not hearing "no" you're not trying, if you're not getting laid you stopped trying at no.
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