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I am now working on myself physically, eating right, and have lost about 20 pounds, so i'm not feeling or looking fat anymore and i think i look much healthier.
And I'm Working out at least 4x a week and getting more defined.
Gotta start working on my style though.
But I turned 43 a couple months ago and i can already tell that i am getting screened out by women that i try to talk to more and more based on my age. And I pretty much do day game and just not having any success.
So i am thinking about building up my Energy and hitting Night Venues so i can have access to more girls.
My question is that being that Night Venues can be 100x more competitive than daytime venues, do i even have a shot with the hotter club girls when
i'm getting screened out in the daytime???
What city are you gonna be rolling in? What kind of clubs - electronic music, pop music??
In LA, Vegas, and Miami, the clubs have a lot of old guys. These guys are big time ballers though. They have a table with an entourage of chicks already. In these club, I imagine you can suit up (nice fitted trendy summer suit) and just play the numbers game. Last year I pulled a girl from XS in Vegas. I am 42 y/o now. I am Asian so I still look like I am in my mid 30s. But I feel you. Once you hit 40, signs of aging start to accelerate.
I live in Vegas now, and i have no experience with the club scene here yet....
I really don't get affected by being blown out now, so i don't mind playing the numbers game as long as there is some chance of success.
I don't mind being blown out by girls in Daygame, but after 2-3 years of not getting anywhere, it's really starting to piss me off. Which is why
i'm thinking i should at least increase the odds of success by going after a lot more girls per outing and that would have to be at Night.
So I imagine being extremely direct and playing the numbers game in the clubs can at least get me some SNLs and/or Day2s..
What do you think?
Also the last couple of girls i've asked, as a game, how old do you think i am i've gotten 35-38.. so i don't know if that's good or bad, but at
least they didn't say 50. haha.
It looks like lots of men become obsessed with age just as women do. It's a belief and one I'd throw out, because it is not serving you or is it!?
Instead of putting age as an excuse I'd ask myself: what can I do to improve my game and become more successful. Take responsibility. That's my advice. If you are not succesful you are doing something wrong and by 'doing st wrong' I also mean 'having the wrong mindest, attitude etc'.
You may check videos of Kezai Noble like this one and this
She always seems to have some students over 50 and I think she knows what she's talking about. Check for other videos.
(I am not affiliated with her and I never was her student; it's just the impression I have got following her work occasionally)
I don't know you and I certainly don't want to be rude, but I must say that this is an example for the reason I don't spend much time on forums. Way too much focus on problems instead of solutions.
one more. You probably have heard of the Godfather of seduction, Ross Jeffries. I think he's in his late fifties now. I am not following him either, but few months ago I heard he had suffered a heart attack. After recovering slightly he went straight after the nurses in the hospital. No excuse! *LOL* I guess there's a lot of stuff around from him on youtube and on the Web in general
And last not least, Hurricane Lee. Few years ago, I used to visit a forum on a website called approachanxiety.com where he's around This guy is around fifty now and he says there's never a shortage in 22y old hotties chasing him (he's usually not interested). He is a math professor at NYU and doing more conventional pickup stuff tweaked by his own observations and theories.
I wouldn't be dogmatic in my approach. Whatever works best for me personally works best. I wouldn't hesitate to steal from Mystery, if I found something useful (never did though, haha)
Yeah.. i've done Ross Jeffries brand of pickup ever since it started but never really got consistent results with it.. even though technically i was really good at it.
So i've finally revamped my game, which is why i'm looking to go to clubs and be more direct, physical, dominant, fun, etc. But yeah, i do admire his ability, no matter how old he gets to go after hot college girls, without paying any attention to the age differences. I had no idea he might have suffered a heart attack recently. Hope he's ok now.
I have never heard of Hurricane Lee before. I'll check that source out.
i'll be 45 in a month. about 2 months ago some hot 25 year old was chatting me up. big rack, nice ass. i thought she was just being friendly, partly because of the age difference and also i wasn't even hitting on her. then she slips me her phone number!!! honestly, you just never know until you get out there. just go to the clubs. what's the worst that can happen?
grubster wrote: i'll be 45 in a month. about 2 months ago some hot 25 year old was chatting me up. big rack, nice ass. i thought she was just being friendly, partly because of the age difference and also i wasn't even hitting on her. then she slips me her phone number!!! honestly, you just never know until you get out there. just go to the clubs. what's the worst that can happen?
Aids and getting your teeth kicked in come to mind
I'm glad I found this forum for us older gentlemen. I'm 41 years old, 6 '1" and 200 lbs and I recently lost 20 lbs. I do workout and eat healthy as much as I can. People tell me I don't look my age, they tell me I can pass for 36ish. Now to some of the questions that were posed on here about age. I personally don't let my age stop me from doing anything. It's about the mindset that you have and how you carry yourself. I'm the kind of person that can party at a club and dance all night with the young crowd or go to a bar a be surrounded by 30 and 40 somethings.
I have friends who are younger like 10-13 years younger and I party more than they do. They act more like old men and I act more like a young man. I'm out there clubbing (though I'm already sick of it), hitting on women, going to different social events. I think age is irrelevant and you shouldn't let it stop you from doing what you want. A few months ago I had same day lay with a 33 year old girl and age was not an issue. I think it will only be an issue if you make it an issue and bring attention to it. We can sit and dwell about our age and let it affect our goals, or we can say the hell with it and do what ever we want. As long as the girl is DTF, interested in you and over 27(my preference), then age shouldn't come into play. I'm always striving to improve myself mentally, physically and financially. As you know what you feel inside will show on the outside. So if you feel young, confident and unstoppable that will be come through on the outside. You have to exude confidence and don't give a shit about what people think.
Almost forgot. I've used Tadalfil 10mg before doubled up on the dose and still had my dick go limp while screwing the girl. I'm not sure if it's because of the condom or the alcohol consumption that's the culprit. Has anybody tried Tadalafil before? Did it worked for you?
I also need GLL's advice on how to revamp my wardrobe.Where do you guys shop for affordable clothes? I want to dress a little more sophisticated and more edgy.I think if I can get upgrade my wardrobe and increase my approaches I can take my game to another level. I will greatly appreciate you guys' help.
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