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Re: Do's and dont's for date 1 08 Dec 2013 01:04 #80663

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Who knows and who cares. Try and setup another date, if she flakes fuck it who cares hit her up again in a couple weeks if you feel like it. Hit on other girls.

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Re: Do's and dont's for date 1 30 Dec 2013 21:39 #87371

Perhaps you weren't aggressive enough. I agree with BoyToy in that you should ALWAYS try to f***, or go as far as you can physically on the first date. ALWAYS.

It shows the girl that you mean business and you're not a pussy, even if you only get a make out or something I think it means a lot.
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Re: Do's and dont's for date 1 30 Dec 2013 23:37 #87399

I still dont understand why you dont try to fuck the girls on first date.

Dude, put yourself into the girls mind:

Wow, a guy just hit on my directly on the street in the middle of the day.
Wow, hes confident and good looking
Wow, he asks me if I want to hang out
He is definitely a confident guy, I think I want to hang out with him, maybe he will give me some good sex

... wtf he took me to coffee and he didnt even kiss me????

You shouldnt wait to fuck them until the day2 - you even tell us you have problems retaining them after day1
So fuck them while you have them - on the first date. Escalation is ATTrACTIVE.

If you hit on a girl on the street like a man, she EXPECTS you to escalate like a man on you day1.


While i was reading the first few posts i swear i was just waiting to scroll down because i knew you gonna jump up and write what you just did :)

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Re: Do's and dont's for date 1 31 Dec 2013 03:34 #87437

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Its funny reading these posts from almost a year ago and how much I have learned from then, and how many stupid questions I had  :P 

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Re: Do's and dont's for date 1 15 Jan 2014 23:54 #92543

K I've been on 3 dates in the past week. And have 4 more setup this week. Only 1 of those is a date 2, the other two girls don't wanna meet up for a date 2. I've noticed some bad habits that I am going to fix for my new date 1's this week, but what I want to know is what kind of stuff the vets here make sure to do and not to do on date 1's. Keep in mind my date 1's are almost always coffee dates. Usually I make small talk and do a bit of kino and hug close at the end. I don't know how to amp it up to the next level to ensure I secure a date 2 with the girl so I can try and fuck her. Gimme your best stuff fellas.


Did you really just say "hug close"?

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Re: Do's and dont's for date 1 16 Jan 2014 00:21 #92548

Be as aggressive as possible.  Over time you will calibrate.  It is amazing how aggressive you can actually be.  You need to learn your own boundaries and limits.  You will fuck some dates up but this is how you will learn and develop... also, some girls have what I call "first date syndrome" where they wont want to fuck on the first date.  To counter this you just end the date early on a high note and then see them again at a later time.  This way you don't waste your valuable time on a date that isn't going anywhere.... Just a theory I'm working on.
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Re: Do's and dont's for date 1 16 Jan 2014 01:47 #92566

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K I've been on 3 dates in the past week. And have 4 more setup this week. Only 1 of those is a date 2, the other two girls don't wanna meet up for a date 2. I've noticed some bad habits that I am going to fix for my new date 1's this week, but what I want to know is what kind of stuff the vets here make sure to do and not to do on date 1's. Keep in mind my date 1's are almost always coffee dates. Usually I make small talk and do a bit of kino and hug close at the end. I don't know how to amp it up to the next level to ensure I secure a date 2 with the girl so I can try and fuck her. Gimme your best stuff fellas.


Did you really just say "hug close"?


No I didn't "just say" it. I said it a year ago. I might just delete this thread. I have newbs reading it for the first time not reading the date I wrote it and thinking I still need these questions answered.

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