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Hi to everyone on the forums, I am not active as much as I would like to, and I want to apologize for that considering how many good advice u guys gave me over the course of few months, although I was pussy and haven't applied much yet.
I have this weird situation with one girl which I want to fuck. I escalated on her 2nd date at my place but she resisted whole night. Read Chris article about continuing to go on dates if not experienced, which describes me pretty well.
So, we met 3rd time for a drink(and that was it), and 4th time she was at my place, even stayed over, i fingered her multiple times and she blew me(and swalloed, that's nice), but still resisted me getting her naked, let alone sex.
I like the girl, but no oneitis, I am meeting up tonight for 2nd date with another girl, but if u guys could tell me, what should I do? This is turning somewhat into a relationship kinda thing from my point of view, isn't it?
Edit: Good friend of mine(he has 24 lays, good looking) suggested me to keep inviting her to my place for movies and stuff and just keep trying to fuck her and if she does start mentioning going out/dates/relationship to just cut it. This makes sense to me.
If you're inexperienced, your friend's advice is good. If you don't fuck her, at least you can just spend more time being comfortable around girls and practicing being sexual, etc.
I would recommend trying to get her to drink more next time. I don't know how much people drink in Croatia but from my experience almost no girl can drink >2 Long Island Iced Teas without being at least 80% more DTF
But if you're busy with other stuff like school, etc. I wouldn't bother and just meet other chicks because it sounds like these dates are taking a lot of time
Former 21 year old virgin
2013: 1 lay
2014: 0 lays
2015: 7 lays
2016: 38 lays
If you don't want a relationship then absolutely don't invite her to hang out outside of your place, period. Probably don't invite her to spend the night either. You kind of screwed this up now though.
In my experience, if a girl isn't down for sex by date 2 or 3, you've given off "boyfriend" signals and she's making you wait because she thinks she can, and because she thinks you will. You haven't given her the impression that you have options and that you move quickly and that if she doesn't move quickly with you then you'll move on.
That said, as long as you are progressing sexually, I would keep seeing her. If she was refusing to make out for three dates she's obviously got sexual hangups and you don't want that. So, fingering on date 2, blowjob on date 3, I'd still go for date 4 expecting sex this time. Do NOT hang out outside the house until you've had sex though, you're moving backwards.
On the other hand, what is your method of escalation and exactly what do you do when she turns down getting naked? I've literally never gotten to the point where I'm fingering a girl and she does not allow penetration on the same night so I would suspect you're handling something wrong there.
intrinsicanomaly wrote: On the other hand, what is your method of escalation and exactly what do you do when she turns down getting naked? I've literally never gotten to the point where I'm fingering a girl and she does not allow penetration on the same night so I would suspect you're handling something wrong there.
Trust me the only option left was raping her. I just let it go for few secs/mins and try again but when she squeezes your hands and tries to move them away while saying a loud NO, I just accept that I shouldn't move on at that very moment.
I’ve gotten laid on the 4th or 5th date since adopting the GLL lifestyle. One was a really hot blonde athlete and I didn’t want to “lose” her. Ended up having sex once before she realized there was no chance of a relationship and bailed.
That said, for every girl that will fuck you on the 5th date, there are 2 more that will randomly ghost you after date 5. It’s a personal decision whether you want to risk wasting your time.
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