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So I cold approached this girl last week at school. Pretty hot 20 year old. Got her number and set up a coffee date before her class (today).
Girls I meet up with usually never arrive late. But for some reason I had a feeling this girl would be late - she smokes way too much, drinks way too much red bull, and so on...
We were supposed to meet up at 5:30 pm. Her class was at 6 pm.
She texts me at 5:15 saying she's running a little late.
She texts me at 5:30 saying she's gonna be there by 5:45.
She actually arrives at 5:55. 5 minutes before her class.
She says she's sorry (she actually was sorry) for being so late and says she has to go smoke before her class. So we go outside and she smokes while we chat for ~3-4 minutes. Then she goes to class. I stick around and cold approach 2 other girls.
What was supposed to be a 30 min coffee date turned out to be a 4 minute chat, because she was late
What would you do? I still wanna fuck her and she seems like an easy fuck
Don't even try to set up a date again with her. Just continue texting, and invite her over to your place for drinking or smoking.
You don't have to smoke, just use that as an excuse. She doesn't deserve more than that.
Both Adrian and ETA make good points, yeah, she's at least somewhat interested if she bothered to even show up, but without being in her mind, she's probably not very interested if she showed up 5 minutes before her class without planning on skipping it.
Since you know the situation personally, you need to gauge how much time and energy you are willing to invest in her.
Were I you, if I got hints that she's mad easy I'd do what ETA said, if I get hints that she's somewhat interested but she's not so easy, I would set up another coffee date and then take it from there like nothing happened, but if she shows up late again, I would forget about her.
You broke one of the most basic rules of getting laid - don't book a date with a girl that has a definite time limit. Also, don't book a date with a girl in the morning. Also, don't book a date with a girl who has something to do afterwards.
All of these things are a no-no.
Only ever book dates with a girl who:
- can stay as long as they want
- don't have shit to do after
Also, when she told you she was gonna be late, you should have proactively rescheduled. I can sense a huge amount of needy energy from you right now.
So I met up with her again today - she was actually on time. Funny thing is, while I was waiting for her, one of my previous lays passed by and pretended to ignore me. (I fucked her twice back in December, lost all interest and ghosted her since)
We hung out for a while - she's pretty chill but kinda shy/nervous/anxious. When time was up, I tried to kiss her, but she said "no kiss on first date." She said she's too shy and nervous (bullshit). She hugged me really tight though.
I'll hit her up in a couple of days. I'd love to spread her legs open and pound her pussy
nevmx wrote: She said she's too shy and nervous (bullshit).
I wouldn't assume that. I think it's quite possible she was nervous/shy and was worried she would "mess up" if you kissed her. A lot of girls, even hot ones, are very insecure (hard to notice for guys, especially inexperienced guys, who just see them oozing sexual attractiveness and driving our dicks crazy). Doesn't matter either way, right? Just hit her up in a couple days like you said and go for that coochie.
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